I’m bored and our intimate life is nonexistent
My husband is bi and even been together for almost 10 years. To paint the picture, we’re both professionals, with kids, and expecting another on the way. We’re pretty much exhausted by the end of the day, but we haven’t had sex in so long. We used to watch porn together and watch what he likes to watch. The only time he’s kinda open about it is when he’s drunk, which also makes me sad because what if he’s out there drunk and getting intimate with guys. I want to be a part of it and enjoy it too.
All in all, we haven’t been intimate and our sex life has gotten so boring. No matter how much I’ve talked to him about it, there’s no initiative. On top of that, he works from home, so I have a feeling he could be at home pleasuring himself with all his toys, yet I’m over here dry as the desert and trying to masturbate quickly driving home.
It’s like he’s hiding his true self when it’s just the 2 of us and it makes me sad. How do I address this?