Got in touch with a 20yo NE SB in Bangalore who initially said she was open to virtual → IRL. We discussed allowance, mutually agreed, and everything seemed smooth.
Before payment, she was active quick replies, good vibe, engaging properly. But once the payment was done, things completely changed. Replies dropped a lot, barely any effort, and nothing close to what was promised (SFW/NSFW chats etc.).
There was always some reason or delay, and the whole vibe just went off. What made it worse I texted from another Telegram account just to check, and she was replying there while ignoring my main chat. Clearly still looking for other SDs while not putting effort here.
I'm not even expecting anything crazy, just basic consistency and some time/effort, but that wasn't there at all.
So my question:
- Is this kind of behavior common?
- Why does the effort drop immediately after payment?
- How do you filter out people who aren't serious?
Also, are there genuinely reliable SBs in Bangalore who are actually open to IRL and consistent?
Would appreciate honest insights.