r/IndianSugarDatingIRL

I am in Sugar world since over five years. Met many girls, have had some long term and many short term relationships. I am grateful for all the love, memories and good times that i could have with these amazing ladies.

However during all these times, one thing that i can vouch is that dusky girls are something else. It is always a very unique experience, and if i compare all my experiences, All memorable experiences came with girls who were wheatish or dusky in complexion, no matter if you talk about SFW conversation or NSFW things. Cant get enough of them at all.

It would be interesting to know the POV of other fellas here as well. What do you all think?

21f bbw looking for a sugar mommy to get spoilt by hehe

Controversial opinion but I wish more daddies knew if we’ve spoken for a while and you are getting my time, attention, personalised perks like pictures without asking AND we’ve hung out too, you should ideally start spilling some sugar. It’s a sugar relationship, play your part. It’s crazy weird to ‘ask’ for money; it ruins the dynamics- at least for some of us. Ugh I wish it wasn’t this awkward.

blr based dm me if u can pay 30-50k per meet no sex involved. 19f.

Dm me for further discussion have some tempting and good offer

why always women need sugar daddy's. can't they become sugar mommies to fulfill their desires?

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Open to both short term and long term at this point🙈

Over time, I've realised I naturally connect better with mature, confident women. The conversations feel more balanced, emotionally intelligent, and honestly more meaningful than most interactions I've had with people my age.

I'm 25, professionally settled, into fitness, and more interested in genuine connections than casual dating.

For people who've experienced age-gap dating, especially in India, how did it happen naturally? Was it through work, hobbies, social circles, dating apps, or something unexpected?

Also curious - do mature women generally see younger men differently when the emotional maturity is there, or does the age gap still become a barrier most of the time?

Does anyone know of any sugar dating sites apart from Seeking? Seeking has become too invasive with requiring ID and selfie verification. I want to get inputs from you all if you’re using any other site apart from Seeking for Sugar relationships?

25F from the NE
Looking for a long term genuine connection with a respectful, emotionally mature, and generous SD.
I value honesty, patience, and meaningful conversations. Prefer someone who understands boundaries, consistency, and building comfort naturally before anything NSFW
DM me with a lil about yourself if you think we’d get along

Timwewasters, sd’s who does fake promises can stay away!
Looking for job in tech side in Bangalore !! along sugaring
So if that something u can do, please dm, else let’s not waste each other’s time

Northeastern based here looking for someone who reads my post A-Z , is emotionally intelligent and won’t treat me like a sex object . Please be able to hold conversations well . No rudeness zone .

Preferably 30+, who is experienced in this , and takes time to know .

I offer exclusivity and loyalty .

25 F based in Goa, looking for a genuine, generous and respectful SD.

Someone mature and someone who is looking to make a genuine connect and build a mutually beneficial relation.

I have some pictures of mine on my profile please have a look at it before you text me. I am someone who loves to travel, explore new places, cafés, watch movies. I also do read smut!

Im also someone who is emotionally available, so i would really love to be invested in your day to day activities, would love to give you attention and would expect the same.

If you would be interested please drop me a text with a brief introduction.

I am searching for SBs and most of them are asking for m..... even for verification. Don't they trust Sds or only we have to send money. What's wrong if we ask to verification??

Many of them would block if they get it.

Am I the only one who is facing such issues?

How can I trust them ?

Can any one suggest me please about this matter

So today a guy dmed me and well we had a session and he paid some of the decided money beforehand. And as promised we had chats and some media sharing, almost more than an hour. And later when I asked for the remaining money he started making excuses, i thought maybe his money is genuinely stuck somewhere but later he didn't even come online for the next 3-4 days. Honestly I feel bad wasting my time. Anyways how do I basically filter out who's genuine and prevent these types of shit later on?

I recently met a sugar girl who charges weekly. Since I’m married, I usually come online only late at night. The first few days were good, but for the last two days I’ve barely heard from her — just a quick “hi/hello” on TG, and then she’s been missing the whole day and night.

I only expect regular messages, photos, and of course an IRL meet whenever she’s in town. I’m confused whether I’ve just lost the money or if she’s genuinely busy.

Whenever I can’t message her, I always let her know the hours I’ll be available.

Being a Trans i didn't it know it will be so difficult!! Finding someone who takes care of you for who you rather rather treating you like a Pros. And making you feel Ugly !! I'm just done , probably will remove myself from this Sub reddit . Not a Cute feeling Tbh !!

Northeastern based here looking for someone who reads my post A-Z , is emotionally intelligent and won’t treat me like a sex object . Please be able to hold conversations well . No rudeness zone .

Preferably 30+, who is experienced in this , and takes time to know .

I offer exclusivity and loyalty .

Met a Bengali SB from Kolkata last month. We had been talking for around 2 weeks before the meeting. Surprisingly chill girl, smart, sarcastic, and had that soft Bengali accent that somehow makes even normal conversations sound attractive.

I flew her down to Bangalore for the weekend. Honestly expected it to be awkward in person because online chemistry does not always translate, but the moment we started talking it felt easy. No awkward small talk or fake energy.

We started drinking while talking about relationships, bad dates, sugar expectations, random life stories. One of those nights where time moves fast without realizing it.

Things escalated after a few drinks and we ended up on the balcony doing "the main act" late at night. Both drunk, reckless, adrenaline kicking in. Next morning while having coffee I suddenly noticed there was a CCTV camera mounted near the corner facing towards the balcony area.

The silence after realizing that was hilarious and horrifying at the same time. She buried her face in a pillow from embarrassment while I was trying to figure out whether it actually captured anything. Safe to say both of us avoided eye contact with hotel staff during checkout 😂

The rest of the trip was genuinely fun though. We went shopping the next day and she somehow turned a “quick stop” into 4 hours across multiple stores. Watching her switch between sweet, demanding, dramatic, and excited within minutes was honestly entertaining. Ended up carrying half the bags while she judged my fashion choices the entire time.

Spent hours in the jacuzzi drinking wine, talking nonsense, trying new things together, ordering terrible midnight food, and basically forgetting the outside world existed for a bit.

What surprised me most was how comfortable the vibe became. Did not feel transactional after a point. More like two people escaping routine for a weekend.

Still one of the better sugar experiences I have had.

note: true story, rewritten from chatgpt