r/IndianSugarDatingIRL

I'm curious if anyone here is actually looking for a genuine sugar relationship or if most people are only interested in something physical? 😩😩

For me, the best arrangement is about more than intimacy.

I want someone i genuinely enjoy spending time with, going out for dinner, watching movies, shopping together, taking trips, having good conversations, laughing, and creating memorable experiences.

I'm not looking for endless texting or a one-time meetup. I'd rather build an arrangement where we both look forward to seeing each other and enjoy each other's company, while being honest about our expectations from the start.

If you're someone who values connection, consistency, and quality time, not just a bedroom encounter we'll probably get along well.

Life is more enjoyable when you have someone you can share experiences with, and that's the kind of dynamic I'm hoping to find.

If this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you.

It’s my first time in this please no bad comment.
I’m willing to verify.

Looking for something in MNC’s in Bangalore
Anyone people in higher position who has the potential to help can reach out
Dm to discuss further!
I’m a fresher , cse graduate, 22F, from Bangalore

Hey,

29SD here - a senior IT professional in management.

Passionate about traveling, food etc.

looking for a long term SR here.

If intrested - kindly dm with your expectations

Pref long term

Hiii i am 22f lil bit chubby dusky…. Im looking for a genuine sd in delhi ncr
I am open to verification like meetups etc
But this has happened with me ki the guy deleted the whole tg chat and blocked me before i even reached the destination… i was in the cab…. So if u do this shi pls refrain from texting me pls… i am not here to waste ur time or money i hope u understand my pov too … thanx

Looking for positive replies
Xoxo

Don't dm just hey

Don't dm if u are not from Mumbai,below 31 age ,timepass,not experienced,cheap.😊

someone to spoil me well & respectful!

Hey,

31SD here - a senior IT professional in management.

Passionate about traveling, photography, writing , books, food etc.

Not a blr resident- but work brings me here very often, so looking for a long term SR here.

If intrested - kindly dm with your expectations.

It will be great if u can stay at my place

24f from North East India, currently in my hometown. I am chubby, plus size. Extroverted and easy to get along with. Looking for a generous, kind and respectful sugar daddy. I am open to travel if everything is taken care of. Only IRLs no virtual. Drop a message with some details.

Ps. - If you have job offer that's a plus point. (I have prior almost 3 years of hospitality industry experience)

Hey everyone,

This is my first time trying to find an SB through Reddit, and I had a bit of a wake-up call.

I spent a day or two chatting with someone who claimed to be a woman. Thankfully, I decided to do a bit more verification before inviting them to meet, and I discovered they were actually a gay man pretending to be a woman. It could have turned into a really awkward situation if I hadn't checked first.

It made me realize that I probably don't know enough about verifying people safely before meeting.

For those of you who have been doing this for a while:

• What verification steps do you usually take?
• What are your non-negotiable checks before agreeing to meet?
• What are the biggest red flags you've learned to watch out for?
• Have you ever had similar experiences with fake profiles or catfishing?

I'm not trying to judge anyone's identity, my concern is simply that someone intentionally misrepresented themselves. I'd appreciate any advice on staying safe and avoiding scams or catfishing.

PS: Also is there any way that you guys use to prove to the SB that you are genuine ? I guess the truest issue goes both ways, if there anything that has worked consistently for you please share that as well. (Any SBs have any suggestions on this please feel free to comment or DM if you are concerned with privacy over a public comment, I genuinely would like to heard about your thoughts)

Thanks in advance for sharing your experiences!

I Have been single for long . So looking for something a nice bond and also financial support. But before that I wanna know you first have a bond ( ofc no money involved) before we meet . Also a virgin so looking for someone caring.

I don't know i hope no gets offended but idk please be atleast above average. Attractiveness is an important thing for me . Like yeah so . I have seen men being -1 and calling themselves 10 . And ofc be rich Loc- delhi

dm if you’re looking for something more than sex. 20F pune based sb here & willing to verify

24f from North East India, currently in my hometown. I am chubby, plus size. Extroverted and easy to get along with. Looking for a generous, kind and respectful sugar daddy. I am open to travel if everything is taken care of. Only IRLs no virtual. Drop a message with some details.

Ps. - If you have job offer that's a plus point. (I have prior almost 3 years of hospitality industry experience)

Hello….

As the title says, I’m looking for a SB in Bangalore. Someone who is easy to get along well, likes conversation, enjoy coffee, open for traveling (Not a deal breaker), submissive and easy to get along well.

I’m all up for Yap coz I’m a great listener. I’m kind and respectful (Not hyping).

Would love to chat with someone who is interested! Thanks

I feel very lonely in life. And that’s cause my life isn’t going well since really long. I came to this community thinking I’ll find some distraction from my daily life. I Just wanna explore sex safely, meet someone decent who can make me feel pampered. I do not want a relationship and not wanting to invent emotionally. Offcrs i can have good conversations and chit chat but no emotional investment at the moment. I’m looking for an escape from my current situation.

I found one person who could have been a good thing to begin with. But he blocked me giving me the reason that he started to like me a bit.

Since then i haven’t found anyone. I don’t know how this sugaring works what ppl are looking for. It does feel scary too. Idk how is it to trade sex for whatever sugaring involves.

I’m F 28.. just sharing some thoughts here

Hey there, survivors of the endless scroll.

I know this sub is a literal ocean of the exact same request, and the odds of this working feel pretty low. But here I am anyway, throwing a digital message in a bottle to find a fun-loving SB.

The lowdown:

No pic-collector energy: Zero interest in demanding nudes or spamming your inbox.

The actual agenda: Good coffee, great food, terrible jokes, and seeing if we vibe in the real world.

The pace: Entirely relaxed. No high-pressure sales pitches here.

If you’re tired of the usual copy-paste scripts and want to see if we can actually laugh our way through a date, drop into my DMs. Let’s beat the algorithm together.

Location: anywhere in north india, IRL only

I'm 19F from Delhi. curvy, witty, and looking for an experienced SD (27+) who's generous, respectful, and can actually hold a conversation. I'd rather start with a proper date and get to know each other than skip straight to a hotel. I'm open-minded, kinky, and love exploring with the right person, but chemistry and trust come first.

If you think we'd click, shoot your shot

Looking for someone genuine for some good vibes, great company, and someone who loves to spoil and be spoiled. 😉

Never had one . Would love to experience it . I’m north East Indian :3