u/thelovelypixie

i feel like such a hater but sometimes i get so jealous when girls brag about their money. i wanna feel happy for them so bad but ofc when you’re struggling to pass even a couple hundred dollars for a while it could be a slap in the face. like today was my day off but one of the girls texted me “i was in VIP for 7 hours with the same customer and he tipped me $2000. isn’t that amazing?” and i’m like … what does that have to do with me? at our grown age respectfully why go out of your way to rub your earnings in my face? it’s just weird to me. plus, you never know what someone’s situation is. someone could have an eviction notice, a custody battle, tuition deadlines, and more but … you’re over here bragging about your money lmao. discretion is a factor babes

maybe i am a hater LMAO 😭 how do i fix this mindset and maybeee turn it into motivation instead of jealousy?

so i was performing and i jumped into a split - my party move. as i was exiting the split, i felt my back knee cap start to move out of place. i felt / heard a slight tear before i quickly repositioned myself. knee cap didn’t pop, and it returned back to its normal place. definitely hurt tho. i can still walk, it’s just a little achy. i am limping a bit, it’s hardly even swollen, but i’m a bit unsettled from what happened. it’s just sore right now. did i catch it just in time before it got worse? is it worth still prioritizing rest for a bit? i never had a knee injury before, or even a joint injury, so all thoughts are appreciated

i did cut my shift short and went home after. i do not have insurance so i’m hoping that i can treat this without seeing a doctor. a brace, rest, and ice? how many days do we think i should stay down?

anything helps !! thanks

and it’s more than “because that’s what customers prefer”

we are DANCERS. this is job is veryyy physically demanding and neglecting your health is going to bite you in the ass QUICKLY. you DO NOT wanna miss out on money because your body hasn’t been trained to handle it. for example, when a customer wants to do multiple dances with you. one time i had a custie do 22 dances with me back to back (and I’ve seen girls hit 50+ dances in one night). luckily, i had started my fitness journey months before that so i was able to keep up. but i always wonder how id do if I was still chugging bottle after bottle and eating like a slob every day. 1️⃣ I’d probably collapse and 2️⃣ he probably wouldn’t have wanted to spend much time with me if I wasn’t in shape. or what about if a custie wants to spend hours with you in the VIP? realistically, of course you’re gonna need to pause and catch your breath eventually. but i always like to challenge myself to see how long i can remain active before tapping out. after all, more action equals more money !! 🤑

i like to think of it like this - every 30 minutes i spend in the gym is another thousand dollars in my pocket 💸 ladies, it’s worth investing a routine. whether it’s the gym, yoga, a fun sport, or even pole classes. anything to keep your stamina up and your muscles activated. your body, your mental, and your pockets will thank you !! 💕

happy hustling 💋