Low bodycount
I’m (M31) curious to hear experiences from people who introduced cuckold or hotwife dynamics with partners who had a very low body count and were generally more “relationship-only” sexually.
My girlfriend (F31) has only slept with people she dated seriously (I’m her number 5, and her third boyfriend), isn’t very promiscuous by nature (but a slut as a girlfriend), and sex for her is usually emotional/intimate rather than casual. At the same time, there’s some curiosity and openness there, even if she’s shy about it.
I’ve already talked about the subject with her before, and she’s open-minded/curious. She’s even kissed 4 different guys in front of me during parties, which we both enjoyed, but we’ve never gone beyond that.
For those who’ve been in a similar situation:
- How did things evolve?
- Was it harder for someone more reserved to explore this kink?
- What helped her open up and feel safe/confident?
- Did you start with fantasies, flirting, online stuff, soft swapping, etc.?
- Were there emotional challenges because of attachment/intimacy?
- Did it end up strengthening the relationship or creating insecurities?
I’m especially interested in stories from couples where the woman was NOT naturally “wild” or experienced beforehand, but gradually discovered she enjoyed the dynamic.
Would love honest perspectives, advice, success stories, regrets, or things you wish you’d done differently.