My wife is slowly opening up and we are about ready. Some questions though..
I am looking for some honest perspective from people who have actually been in this situation.
My wife and I have been talking about the idea of an MFM threesome. We are both curious and open-minded, but neither of us has any real experience with this kind of dynamic. Right now it is more of a “what if” conversation than something we have committed to doing.
I think my biggest concern is regret—either in the moment or afterward. Not necessarily from a moral standpoint, but more emotionally. I wonder how it might affect how I see my wife, how she sees me, or how it might change our relationship dynamic in ways we cannot predict.
For those of you who have tried it, especially if you went in without prior experience:
- Did you have any regrets afterward?
- Were there emotions that caught you off guard?
- What do you wish you had talked through more beforehand?
- Did it strengthen your relationship, or create complications?
- Most importantly.. where do you find the third?
We have a strong relationship and good communication, and I want to approach this carefully rather than impulsively. Any insight—positive or negative—would really help.