Hey! I’ve always had my interest piqued in BDSM but I never really got to properly explore it or really get into it until I got with my current girlfriend, who shares the same interests. We’ve been doing our research and having our fun— and it’s a great learning experience and it’s definitely nice to not have to step into the community alone.
Recently, we’ve been incorporating D/S into our life more consistently— however, although I lean more heavily into Dom tendencies and she leans more heavily into Sub tendencies, we are both Switches and have interest in exploring more into that and incorporating it into what we do. Our only issue here is finding that balance and incorporating it properly— so I’d like to ask for advice for any Switches with more expertise in this area.