Hello i’ve been looking for a good place to find guys in similar positions. I’m married and a dad at first i thought i was just a bit curious or maybe bi but ive been coming to terms with the fact ive just been lying to myself and forcing myself to live a lie. I’m pretty sure im just 100% gay and dont really know what to do. My dm’s are open to anybody else in my shoes to chat
So me (25 m) and my husband (26m) hired a cleaning service to come every two weeks to do all the deep cleaning stuff since we are pretty busy and can tend to get behind on the small details.
We’ve had their services about a year now and during that time i’ve made a point to hide any abdl stuff (onesies, diapers, etc). This week i forgot they were coming and had a few onesies throw in with the clean clothes they folded and my diapers were visible on my closet shelves. I normally will put them in a tote or move them so they aren’t visible.
I came home and judging by what they cleaned they 100% saw all my diapers (medical and abdl prints) and a few onesies (basically all little designs). i’m absolutely humiliated that they saw that stuff even tho i do wear for medical reasons clearly i enjoy it for other reasons too. I’m scared to see them in person again and i can’t imagine what they think or what they go around telling people. Just kind of venting since this is the first time something like this has happened.
gotta take advantage of the nice weather today 😋
grew up with a single father who was naked as soon as he walked in the doors. Have lots of experiences and i’m looking to chat with guys with similar stories
This might be a bit long so i’m sorry in advance! Me (25m) and my husband (26m) have been together nearly a decade. Since the start of our relationship he knew i was on the more submissive side of things and about 2 years into our relationship i found out i was into abdl stuff. He’s alway been supportive but hasn’t ever necessarily been into it. He will do small things here and there like rub my diapers or kinda get into the more caregiver role verbally.
We both considered ourselves switches but over the past couple years it’s been harder and harder for me to be dominant which killed our sex life for a bit. Even now it’s very hard for me to get off when it’s not involving a diaper or i’m not at least thinking about it. I was honest about it and we ended up having a long talk about everything
We have been open for awhile and have messed around with other guys together before but now we think it would be pretty cool to find a guy that could fill that more traditional Dom/sub dynamic for my husband while also being a more Daddy Dom to me. We’ve also talked about the idea of cucking and i can’t lie part of me really wants to try it out.
I know its unrealistic but the idea of finding a guy that could Dom us both that we also really get along with outside of sex and potentially could be a partner would be awesome. I love my husband and i’m glad he’s so understanding even if part of me wishes he could be in that caregiver role i think this potentially could be just as if not more fun!
Sorry for the long post i don’t have any abdl friends irl and wanted to talk about this since im excited about the possibilities!