Sharp pain during and after anal
Girlfriend and I find anal super hot and fun, but the main roadblock we encounter is that she experiences pain both during and after anal, especially after. During anal, she best describes the pain as cutting/stretching when I pull out too much. Afterword, however, she says that this pain gets MUCH worse, with her describing it as a cutting/burning pain that she ranks 8-9/10.
How should we go about prepping and getting ready for anal so that she feels no pain both during and after? How can we move forward to where there is less prep needed to remove the pain completely? Is it possible? Toys aren’t really an option due to her home situation.
Additionally, is it possible to get to a point where prep is not needed, as we are into free use and another roadblock is that it’s very hard to fit anything inside her without her wincing in pain.