

Hi! Recently, I’ve wanted to start wearing diapers more frequently. I used to only wear occasionally but now I have a greater opportunity to wear more often, which has been nice but it’s also caused me to run into an issue., since the more I wear the more I’ve noticed the issue.
I have a very specific fitting problem that I haven’t found a lot of great information on so I finally decided to just ask here, and it’s probably easier to explain if I use a diagram which is what’s at the top (sorry for the poor quality)
Basically, the leg cuffs (I think that’s what you’d call them, the part that makes the seal on the legs?) is abnormally tight around the area depicted by the red lines on the diagrams. It’s noticeable when I stand up straight, and even more noticeable when I’m laying down (I’m a side sleeper so it’s usually noticeable on one side in that case). When I say it’s uncomfortable, I mean that it tightens up and really digs into that area. The cuffs are sort of forced a tiny bit inward, and they just tighten to the point where it’s kinda hard to ignore.
I’ve tried a lot of different things, including taping all kinds of different ways and adjusting the position. I wear a large, and recently, I bought a sample of an xl just to see if it was a sizing issue, and it kind of worked, but only because it was way to big on me.
Anyways, thoughts on what the problem could be? I’d be grateful if someone who had the same problem figured it out and had a solution. It’s really making it hard to enjoy wearing, and to be honest, there’s a chance it’s all in my head too, in which case id like to know, since it would help me just accept the restrictive feeling if I knew it was supposed to be like that. Also sorry for the long post lol, I just want to make sure I’m being meticulous and clear as possible. Thanks in advance!