u/torherewegonto

Like the title says, as I get older, I'm recognising that sex and pleasure are this amazing part of life that so many people don't fully explore - and I don't want to be one of those people!

A bit about me: I'm going through some big (positive) life changes, and have spent the Canadian winter in New Zealand, traveling in a van and doing a bunch of hikes (so I've got a nice firm butt 😉)

I'm in a phase of exploring what life can look like, and I want to extend that curiosity to sex and pleasure too. Right now, I'm especially interested in slower, more sensual connection - with lots of touch, teasing, and kissing - without rushing to penetration or focusing purely on orgasms. Hopefully there's still plenty of those too, but rather than making it an end goal, I'm more interested in exploring what feels good together, taking the pressure off, and letting it happen organically.

Overall I’m looking for something that is casual, but still caring and intentional. I value gentle, kind, curious connections with people who also enjoy exploring physical intimacy in a thoughtful way.

A few other things: I’m a POC, left-leaning, queer-friendly, doing my best to be emotionally aware, and live a pretty outdoorsy/active lifestyle that’s reflected in my body type. I’m open to any race, flexible on age within reason, and usually most attracted to fit-to-average body types - but connection, comfort, and chemistry are more important than ticking boxes.

If you look at my post history you'll see I'm poly - I'll just add that I'm not currently dating anyone, and have amicably split with my previous long term partner from that post. I'm not looking for anything serious, but I do care a lot about clear communication, respect and consistency.

Ideally we exchange a few messages, some verified pics if there’s mutual interest, and see whether there's enough chemistry to meet when I’m back in Toronto in early June.

If any of this resonates with you, send me a message - I'd love to learn more about you! ✨