Opportunity has knocked
I’ve had bisexual feelings all my life. Since puberty. Only been with women though because that’s how life turned out (the times and related stigma back then, etc). Wife knows about these feelings. She will even send me links to MMF porn she thinks I’d like.
Current situation: A longtime friend of my wife has been talking to her about how his wife has bisexual feelings and he thought my wife could be a safe person to play with. He is bisexual too. They even shared a picture of the wife and it was spectacular. That’s how it started.
My wife is not openly bisexual but with her age is wildly open to new things and experiences. She even took a shot at getting a female friend to do lingerie pictures with her for me and her friend’s husband.
I know some people will be like he only wants to screw your wife. Well, he does. That’s ok. I’ve wanted to watch her have sex with another man for ages. The barrier was it has to be someone trusted.
Does the guy want to have sex with me? Also yes. He is down and so am I. Sent and received my first dick pic! He jerked off to the one I sent. So hot!
I’m blown away by my wife navigating all this. We are talking a lot. If it keeps going, great. If it stops here, still great. She’s the best.
UPDATE
Absolute flurry of sexting and talking and emotions. With the distance, we’ve not been able to get together yet but that is good. Gives us all time to mutually play, think, and adjust first. So much sex happening and sharing about it. They are wonderful people. Again, if it stops tomorrow, still great! Indeed, tonight has been the first break from the sexting and sex. My penis is rather grateful for the first day off after the past while. He’s chilling, watching some tv, having a nap…. So slow and steady, but overwhelmingly positive. I feel so good about my bi side. Safe. Wife is like the best version of herself. Owns herself at a level people dream of. Just so proud of her. Similar effects with the other couple even though they are more ahead of us on this journey.
Is there danger? Duh. But we’re developing good habits and expectations. Harder discussions even about what if’s. Result? Never been closer. Thanks for the encouragement. My life is fundamentally different now but most me being me ever. If that makes sense.
She made real space for me to be safely me while making a space for her to develop too.
Amazing.
UPDATE 2
Should mention they are kind, sexy, fun people. Seeing my wife connect with a beautiful woman and man has been a whole wild thing on its own too. Have to stop thinking about it now, don’t want to wake my tired penis up. He needs a break. Hydration and recovery…