u/trippi_drippi

So I (23F) and my bf (25M) have a good sex life. He’s very dominant and I’m submissive. The issue is I have a hard time getting into sex or doing things I want to do. My sex drive is high and I want him to do anything to me but when it comes down to it I feel fear. I think it has to due with past trauma for me but I just want to get past that so I can enjoy and explore more with him. For more context I want to initiate more and be more forward but I freeze every time I try. I trust him I just don’t know what to do or why I freeze every time. I feel like I’m not being sexy enough maybe? I’m really not sure. He never complains and loves when I’m forward and initiate but it’s very hard for me to do it. Any advice pleasseeeeee