My (39M) GF(39F) is over it
I met my gf 5 years ago and she introduced me to this life changing, amazing chemical. We abused it for maybe a year then decided we didn’t want to lose the magic so started a 3-month rule. At first it was great, every 3 months we’d have an amazing roll. Then one time she has a bad experience and is just not excited to do it anymore. If I don’t bring it up it doesn’t get brought up. 3 months turns into 5 into maybe once a year now. I feel strongly that this is a great maintenance plan for our relationship, it’s a great reset and time to talk and bring things up that are usually tough. Now it’s all building up inside me and I’m at the end of my rope. Most recently she mentioned doing it at a festival at the end of the month, but when I suggested we have a roll at home just the two of us it was shot down. We’re now in relationship therapy because of being unable to reconcile differences and communicate effectively and it’s so frustrating when we have years worth of therapy available to us in this tiny little amount of crystal.