Puberty
(apologies for my English which is not my first language)
I am a 33F living in Sweden (originally from a country more south). 6 years ago I met a wonderful Swedish man (now 44M) and decided to move to Sweden to live with him and marry him. He already had two kids (11m and 13f). We have a 3 year old together.
The attitude towards nudity in this family has always been VERY relaxed. I don't think my husband would call himself a naturist, but. Noone covers up for anyone. Bathroom door is always open. People walk through the house in all stages of undress. It took some getting used to at first but now I love it. It's summer now and we spend lots of time naked in the garden. We swim naked in a nearby lake. I don't think about being nude anymore, which is a great feeling.
Now, this has been going on unproblematically for some years.
Lately, I have noticed that my stepson started covering up in my presence. This in turn made me feel very self-consciouss. I talked to my husband about it, he said he hadn't noticed any change but that he would talk to him. Later he said that his son is fine with everyone else being nude but he wants to decide himself how he wants to dress. Which is totally fine of course! However, I can't shake the feeling that maybe he is just being polite, and also my own feeling of freedom is actually influenced by this somehow, I am getting more aware of when I am naked or not. (I don't want to put any guilt on him of course!)
During all this, my stepdaughter has been totally fine and not changing her attitude a bit.
Now, I know what people are going to say, this happens with teenagers when they go through puberty, they'll come around, etc etc. I just wanted to see if any of you had some insight to make this go as smooth as possible