u/ultracheese1

I (F 23) have a bit of a crush on an older man (around 40). I really do not know him at all and it’s surface level but I am very attracted to him and want to shoot my shot. I follow him on Instagram (his personal account but he promotes his business on it) but he doesn’t follow me back. We are from the same community and him and my family are in the same business. That’s about all I know I have in common with him so far. How can I get his attention or talk to him? I feel like sliding into his messages is a bit much for a man his age? I’m not sure. Any suggestions/help is appreciated!