u/undergivn

Hello there. You can call me Jason for now (though that isn't my real name). I'm 5'11" with brown hair and blue eyes. People say I look like Clint Eastwood from the 1950s. I'm 32 years old, currently getting my bachelor's degree in computing. I would prefer a domme in the 26-39 year range but am willing to compromise if the chemistry is good. I am open to both online and in person.

My hobbies include, but are not limited to:

History,

Reading,

Traveling,

Meditating,

Creative writing

I try and choose hobbies that enrich me as a person and engage me mentally and physically.

On a more personal note, I've been described as a hopeless romantic. My friends say that I'm thoughtful and soft spoken. I'd like to think that I'm pretty emotionally intelligent and have a high degree of introspection (which admittedly gets me in trouble sometimes). Overall, I crave a certain sort of depth that's hard to find in conventional life.

What I want

My femdom style is pretty soft. If I had to describe myself from a relationship standpoint, it would be like that of a knight. I'm strong, but I still want to rest my head in the lap of a lady who showers me with affection. I'm competent, but I still wouldn't mind some guidance. Just like a knight, my goal is to defend and protect. I've been quoted as saying "I want to love and beloved the same way two characters in a Ghibli film love each other."

I want to meet someone who's interested in exploring the subtler, more meaningful aspects of submission. I want to feel safe. I want to be vulnerable. I want to be touched. I want these things for you as well. Good submission is deeply sensual and built up over time. Good dominance is quiet and affectionate, firm but guiding. Both are sincere and built on trust. All in all, I want to submit to and fall in love with a real person.

My kinks (and the psychology behind them)

Into: I really enjoy pegging, bondage, blindfolds, nursing handjobs, "making off", orgasm control, Amazon position, JOI, and cunnilingus.

Curious about: Chastity seems hot in theory but IDK in practice. I'll leave it to my domme's discretion if we try this.

These kinks all have something in common. I'm very turned on by the idea of being dependent on someone else for my pleasure. Everything from the amazon position to pegging to bondage is really a manifestation of this idea.

What I have to offer

So far, I've talked about myself. I've done this so you can get to know me. However, I don't want this to detract from the fact that, as a sub, your desires and pleasure will be of the upmost importance to me. I know that you're your own person with things you would like to explore as well, and I am willing and eager to serve for no other reward than your own happiness. Additionally, I've read about the emotional labor aspect of domination and will do my best to make this burden as light as possible on you. I consider myself emotionally intelligent and understand that BDSM is a two way exchange. I want to be good for you. I want to be safe for you.