I (21F) stopped having PIV orgasms with my boyfriend (21M) and I dont understand why
I have always been a very sex positive, open minded woman about sex and anything related to my sexuality. My boyfriend is my first "long" term partner ever, we have been together for half a year now.
Before I met him, I had slept casually with other guys, and I consider myself pretty lucky since the sex has always been really good. I have never had problems when it came to cum from oral sex or PIV sex, any position.
That same thing happened when I met my current bf: we started casually and I had no problem reaching an orgasm with PIV sex. Since then, there came a point when we got more intimate and gradually PIV orgasm became more a more harder to reach, to the point where it felt like a hard workout rather that pleasurable.
I thought nothing more of it like it was a personal thing, so I started touching myself while PIV to finish. Since then, that became the rule.
What I dont understand is that the sex Im having atm is the best sex I have ever had with anyone: we know eachother and what turns eachother on, he's a great partner and I have no personal issues with him outside the bedroom, and I dont feel any pressure to orgasm when Im with him.
Could it be that Im now having sex at a high frecuency? That the vulnerability of a relationship really got to me?
Im looking for advice for any woman who has experienced this in the past, since I miss finishing in any position.
Thank you in advance!