u/untimely-ruin

Hey hey! I’m 5’9”, curvy, with light brown hair, blue eyes, glasses, and a few small tattoos. I work as an analyst in a SOC for a technology company and genuinely love what I do. I’m ambitious, dependable, and often the person others look to when quick decisions need to be made. I’m continuing my education and working on certifications because I’m very clear on where I want to go long term.

Outside of work, I’m mostly a homebody, but I enjoy going out for get togethers, antiquing, concerts, raves, or wandering around a local bookstore. I listen to music constantly, and if I’m not, I can probably be found with my eyes glued to a book, or stuck on a video game. I mostly listen to rock & edm, and, you guessed it, I’m one of those fantasy romance readers. I play world of warcraft (keys and mythic raid, I would love to share this hobby!!) among a few other cozier games, board games, and recently Magic the Gathering. I have also picked up cooking more as well as going to the gym, which are quickly becoming some of my favorite outlets. (Ps, brownie points if you listen to some Sleep Token and tell me what your favorite song is)

I’m a hopeless romantic at heart. To me, a D/s bond is built on friendship, laughter, safety, and mutual support, not just power exchange. I want a partner I can confide in, grow with, and build something lasting. Someone steady, consistent, emotionally intelligent, caring, and also someone who isn’t afraid to be firm with me.

I want to get to know each other deeply, on a level that other people don’t get to see. What makes you giggle, what helps on the hard days, what makes your heart feel full, and vice versa.

A lot of people would describe me as fiercely independent, but I am submissive by nature and am looking for someone to give that side of myself to. I believe that submission is earned, but so is ownership, and I want my Dom to feel proud of me in every way. My goal is to give fully, please fully, and never leave my Dominant wanting. Kink isn’t just an addition to my life, it’s part of who I am. After coming home from work, I want to give myself to the person I belong to. I am not a brat, and you will never have to fight for my submission. I find fulfillment in being molded and guided. My submission deepens through structure, care, and correction because it shows me where I can grow for you and for myself. Submission is not a duty in my eyes, it’s a devotion that brings me peace and purpose, and I long for a Dominant that feels the same pride in their ownership of me as I do in belonging to them.

I realize that all of this might be very very specific, but I’m looking for someone that has similar values, interests, and is serious about building a long term D/s dynamic and not just casual play.

Some common dealbreakers I’d like to bring up, I’m not really interested in ever having children, nor am I interested in staying home or being a homemaker 24/7. I respect those that are looking for this kind of dynamic, but it isn’t for me. I’m strictly monogamous and am not a switch. Additionally, while this isn’t a hard dealbreaker, I do tend to prefer someone in the age range of 25-35, but please feel free to message if you think we would get along!

If you’ve made it this far, thank you for reading my ramblings, I’ll drop some of my favorite kinks below!

Kinks:

Gags

CNC

TPE

Begging

Impact Play

Somnophilia

Degradation

Bondage / Rope Play

Ownership

Orgasm Control / Denial

Edging

Sensory Deprivation

Limits:

Needles, permanent damage, anything illegal, and bathroom play

I also want to clarify, I don’t want to start off with nudes and sexting. I want to work up to that and eventually create a lovely blend of romance, giggles, and kink. I want to fall madly in love over time and be each other’s worlds.

If this sounds like something you’ve been looking for as much as I have been, please send me a message, I’d love to talk more and hear about you (I don’t expect a novel like this one in return but would greatly appreciate if you shared details about yourself in your message!).

Talk soon,

KK : )

Hey hey! I’m 5’9”, curvy, with light brown hair, blue eyes, glasses, and a few small tattoos. I work as an analyst in a SOC for a technology company and genuinely love what I do. I’m ambitious, dependable, and often the person others look to when quick decisions need to be made. I’m continuing my education and working on certifications because I’m very clear on where I want to go long term.

Outside of work, I’m mostly a homebody, but I enjoy going out for get togethers, antiquing, concerts, raves, or wandering around a local bookstore. I listen to music constantly, and if I’m not, I can probably be found with my eyes glued to a book, or stuck on a video game. I mostly listen to rock & edm, and, you guessed it, I’m one of those fantasy romance readers. I play world of warcraft (keys and mythic raid, I would love to share this hobby!!) among a few other cozier games, board games, and recently Magic the Gathering. I have also picked up cooking more as well as going to the gym, which are quickly becoming some of my favorite outlets. (Ps, brownie points if you listen to some Sleep Token and tell me what your favorite song is)

I’m a hopeless romantic at heart. To me, a D/s bond is built on friendship, laughter, safety, and mutual support, not just power exchange. I want a partner I can confide in, grow with, and build something lasting. Someone steady, consistent, emotionally intelligent, caring, and also someone who isn’t afraid to be firm with me.

I want to get to know each other deeply, on a level that other people don’t get to see. What makes you giggle, what helps on the hard days, what makes your heart feel full, and vice versa.

A lot of people would describe me as fiercely independent, but I am submissive by nature and am looking for someone to give that side of myself to. I believe that submission is earned, but so is ownership, and I want my Dom to feel proud of me in every way. My goal is to give fully, please fully, and never leave my Dominant wanting. Kink isn’t just an addition to my life, it’s part of who I am. After coming home from work, I want to give myself to the person I belong to. I am not a brat, and you will never have to fight for my submission. I find fulfillment in being molded and guided. My submission deepens through structure, care, and correction because it shows me where I can grow for you and for myself. Submission is not a duty in my eyes, it’s a devotion that brings me peace and purpose, and I long for a Dominant that feels the same pride in their ownership of me as I do in belonging to them.

I realize that all of this might be very very specific, but I’m looking for someone that has similar values, interests, and is serious about building a long term D/s dynamic and not just casual play.

Some common dealbreakers I’d like to bring up, I’m not really interested in ever having children, nor am I interested in staying home or being a homemaker 24/7. I respect those that are looking for this kind of dynamic, but it isn’t for me. I’m strictly monogamous and am not a switch. Additionally, while this isn’t a hard dealbreaker, I do tend to prefer someone in the age range of 25-35, but please feel free to message if you think we would get along!

If you’ve made it this far, thank you for reading my ramblings, I’ll drop some of my favorite kinks below!

Kinks:

Gags

CNC

TPE

Begging

Impact Play

Somnophilia

Degradation

Bondage / Rope Play

Ownership

Orgasm Control / Denial

Edging

Sensory Deprivation

Limits:

Needles, permanent damage, anything illegal, and bathroom play

I also want to clarify, I don’t want to start off with nudes and sexting. I want to work up to that and eventually create a lovely blend of romance, giggles, and kink. I want to fall madly in love over time and be each other’s worlds.

If this sounds like something you’ve been looking for as much as I have been, please send me a message, I’d love to talk more and hear about you (I don’t expect a novel like this one in return but would greatly appreciate if you shared details about yourself in your message!).

Talk soon,

KK : )

Hey hey! I’m 5’9”, curvy, with light brown hair, blue eyes, glasses, and a few small tattoos. I work as an analyst in a SOC for a technology company and genuinely love what I do. I’m ambitious, dependable, and often the person others look to when quick decisions need to be made. I’m continuing my education and working on certifications because I’m very clear about where I want to go long term.

Outside of work, I’m mostly a homebody, but I enjoy going out for get togethers, antiquing, concerts, raves, or wandering around a local bookstore. I listen to music constantly, and if I’m not, I can probably be found with my eyes glued to a book, or stuck on a video game. I mostly listen to rock & edm, and, you guessed it, I’m one of those fantasy romance readers. I play world of warcraft (keys and mythic raid, I would love to share this hobby!!) among a few other cozier games, board games, and recently Magic the Gathering. I have also picked up cooking more as well as going to the gym, which are quickly becoming some of my favorite outlets. (Ps, brownie points if you listen to some Sleep Token and tell me what your favorite song is)

I’m a hopeless romantic at heart. To me, a D/s bond is built on friendship, laughter, safety, and mutual support, not just power exchange. I want a partner I can confide in, grow with, and build something lasting. Someone steady, consistent, emotionally intelligent, caring, and also someone who isn’t afraid to be firm with me.

I want to get to know each other deeply, on a level that other people don’t get to see. What makes you giggle, what helps on the hard days, what makes your heart feel full, and vice versa.

A lot of people would describe me as fiercely independent, but I am submissive by nature and am looking for someone to give that side of myself to. I believe that submission is earned, but so is ownership, and I want my Dom to feel proud of me in every way. My goal is to give fully, please fully, and never leave my Dominant wanting. Kink isn’t just an addition to my life, it’s part of who I am. After coming home from work, I want to give myself to the person I belong to. I am not a brat, and you will never have to fight for my submission. I find fulfillment in being molded and guided. My submission deepens through structure, care, and correction because it shows me where I can grow for you and for myself. Submission is not a duty in my eyes, it’s a devotion that brings me peace and purpose, and I long for a Dominant that feels the same pride in their ownership of me as I do in belonging to them.

I realize that all of this might be very very specific, but I’m looking for someone that has similar values, interests, and is serious about building a long term D/s dynamic and not just casual play.

Some common dealbreakers I’d like to bring up, I’m not really interested in ever having children, nor am I interested in staying home or being a homemaker 24/7. I respect those that are looking for this kind of dynamic, but it isn’t for me. I’m strictly monogamous and am not a switch. Additionally, while this isn’t a hard dealbreaker, I do tend to prefer someone in the age range of 25-35, but please feel free to message if you think we would get along!

If you’ve made it this far, thank you for reading my ramblings, I’ll drop some of my favorite kinks below!

Kinks:

Gags

CNC

TPE

Begging

Impact Play

Somnophilia

Degradation

Bondage / Rope Play

Ownership

Orgasm Control / Denial

Edging

Sensory Deprivation

Limits:

Needles, permanent damage, anything illegal, and bathroom play

I also want to clarify, I don’t want to start off with nudes and sexting. I want to work up to that and eventually create a lovely blend of romance, giggles, and kink. I want to fall madly in love over time and be each other’s worlds.

If this sounds like something you’ve been looking for as much as I have been, please send me a message, I’d love to talk more and hear about you (I don’t expect a novel like this post but I would really appreciate some details about you!).

Talk soon,

KK : )