u/upwlayla

Happy Monday even though its a Tuesday. It might be a little to early for this but i dont care. I need as many people to be informed by my wonderful findings. Just for reference, Im a girl in my 20s who posted here recently looking for a friend i can hang out with and potentially more. I made a post here a couple days ago and I got absolutely flooded with replys. Like over 250 replys and thats me constantly deleting all the spam so I can get to the good stuff.

Reddit is really not what it used to be. Let me take you through a couple different scenarios of my personal experience starting off with the amount of bullshit messages I still get sent after making it known I dont like my time wasted and I AM not looking for anything sexual from the getgo because i like to go out and get to know you first.

Scenario 1: Hey 32 year old male, 9inch bwc can host.

Deleted. Not even a single second wasted.

Scenarios 2: I want to feed you my big brown dick and cum down your throat. HERES MY NUMBER.

Deleted. I feel like I should have done more though.

Scenario 3: Hey

Didn't stand a chance.

Scenario 4: Hey my names ... cut to the rest of the message which was an essay btw written by chatgpt in reply to my post.

God this one was hilarious cause I almost fell for the charm. AI your reply is not cute. Im trying to get to know you

Scenario 5: hey can I see a pic of you.

Why would I, a girl, with a career send a pic to you from the get go. A complete stranger. If I wanted my picture out there like that id be on tinder.

Scenario 6: the wanabe pornstars.

Again do you but why are you replying to my post. My post specifically asked people like you to stay away.

Scenario 7: You finally choose a few good apples after a lot of fucking deleting and debating your sanity.

The one guy out of probably 300 that you decide to talk to decides to basically call you a whore because you're pretty and based on the fact that I must have so many options. And he knew exactly what he was saying or pointing to because he apologized right after asking me the way he did. Frankly us girls do have a lot of options. And if you cant manage to keep your composure when you ask how many people actually replied back then dont. I have no problem with someone respectfully asking me if I am seeing anyone else or talking to anyone else or fucking anyone else. Thats honesty i expect from both sides but the way you go about it is so important.

IDK if thats worst or being stood up after finally deciding to meet with someone because your availabilitys finally aligned. YES GUYS. You would think this a very bad joke but no. Grown men are out here not showing up to plans they asked to make. So imagine getting ready, making your way out, getting a message that they are just finishing some chores and they are gonna leave soon only to get a message an hour and a half later with a lame sorry and I can't make it but I can make it tomorrow. Ummmm you should have let me know that approximately 2 hours ago. I have 0 respect for people that have 0 fucking respect for my time.

YEAH WE need to do better Toronto. Please we need to fucking do better. Were all adults here with a life, careers and were just trying to have a good summer no? This bullshit has to stop or we have to start publicly shaming accounts on here. The spams, the people that dont know how to read, the assholes, time wasters, yall alllll gotta gooo🗑

At this point Im going to print my number on those tear and go papers and give them out in real jkjk were not that desperate but seriously getting to know people online isnt cutting it anymore especially here

Edit: For those of you saying yall have no reference because I deleted all my post, valid but 🖕 why would I lie😂. Secondly, reference up to my last post

Hahaa apparently my dms were off😭

I posted here last time and got completely slammed but then got busy with work so i do apologize. Have a couple days off of work again and Im in the mood to ball up with a pretty boy and listen to the new drake albumS. Keeping this simple and short, and if we like eachothers vibe im down for a lill summer fling. Like lets cross off as much as we can on our bucket list typa summer vibe. Anyways Im plus size with curves, have a personality, hobbies, job and lifeish. Currently been on a health grind so wouldn't mind someone into the same. Please be around the same age, sane, hygenic, and just a chill person i guess 😂 if you send me sfw pictures ill probably get back to you first

Haaaa i posted here last time and got completely slammed but then got busy with work so i do apologize. Have a couple days off of work again and Im in the mood to ball up with a pretty boy and listen to the new drake albumS. Keeping this simple and short, and if we like eachothers vibe im down for a lill summer fling. Like lets cross off as much as we can on our bucket list typa summer vibe. Anyways Im plus size with curves, have a personality, hobbies, job and lifeish. Currently been on a health grind so wouldn't mind someone into the same. Please be around the same age, sane, hygenic, and just a chill person i guess 😂 if you send me sfw pictures ill probably get back to you first

Really throwing myself into the wild here but i desperately need to make friends before i shit where i eat. These 22 year old charmers at work are putting in over time. Im looking for a chill friend with the potential for more if if if the connection is there. I need to be emotionally and physically attracted to you or this wont work. I know exactly what I want and if you dont fit the description thats okay. Do not waste my time. I work near union station and when im not at work you'll either find me balling up or hyperfixating on one of my million hobbies. Film/business/ art. Currently on a weight loss journey, god i was big 😂 still big but hey you can always hop on the wagon. Im a pretty chill person, like extremely chill, i just ask that you're an upfront no bs typa guyyy and have a life and personality. Im a plus size gurly, pretty and short but not like elf short. Anyways i like to let peoples personality shine through the screen yk but please be single, a truthful person, 420 friendly, can potentially host, live close by because i hate driving and omg hygine, hygine, hygine on all levels.

Edit: Relaxx i said im plus size with curves not unattractive and ugly