u/vanthiyadevan_vanar

We've been living together for the past 2 months and we've got sexually intimate for the first time 2 months ago. Our sex life has been great, we do a lot of foreplay (almost everyday) and sex maybe twice in a week. But the issue is, she almost never lets me play with her breasts. Whenever I touch her there, she immediately folds and feels very ticklish, anywhere below and above that place is fine. She becomes very apprehensive saying she's scared that it might be painful while in reality she feels only ticklish. I've spoken to her, regarding her sexual activity when she was single, she mentioned she has never done anything by herself, not even fondled or played with her boobs by herself. How do I tackle this? I mean whatever I've got with her other than this is great! We have great sex, foreplay down there is good but the upper body is the only issue.

Please suggest how to counter this issue!

Me and my gf (both virgins) are now living together for a month now. We are intimate every now and then, we go up to base 3. But when it comes to sex, we have very odd dynamics. So we had sex for the first time, after moving in last month and she writhed in pain after the first time. The second time, she felt the same but at least she was able to take it for 2-3 mins before giving up, and that day she was bleeding as well (assuming her hymen broke). Now after her periods this month, we have been doing so much of foreplay but no sex yet and she seems very scared. Last time (second time) I tried to have sex, she folder her legs and made it difficult for me to even penetrate.

Of course she wants to have sex, she loves the foreplay, pulls me in when turned on but gets scared immediately when I talk about sex. Is it normal? And also, how do I make sure she's okay and not force her into it? How do we engage in the act without forcing it full of love?

We both love each other a lot, she's the one for me. No doubt and I don't wanna hurt her in any way.