u/vergil08ee8

i think the older i get, the more i realize that peace is actually underrated.

my circle isn’t very big anymore, but i’m okay with that. i’ve watched friendships slowly disappear, seen people become complete strangers over time, and realized i’d rather keep a few people around who genuinely care than chase connections that never really meant much in the first place.

my last relationship ended after i got cheateedd, and i won’t pretend it didn’t affect me. if anything, it completely changed what i value in someone. consistency catches my attention way more than big promises ever could. i’d rather someone be honest, even when it’s uncomfortable, than tell me what they think i want to hear.

over the last couple of years i’ve learned a lot about myself too. one of the biggest surprises was realizing i’m genuinely into feemdomm. exploring peggging has become something i’ve really enjoyed, and it’s helped me become a lot more comfortable with who i am instead of worrying about fitting into someone else’s expectations.

outside of all that i’m honestly pretty easygoing. psychological horror is my favorite genre, sushi will always get me out of the house, and i’m a sucker for nights where a bottle of red wine and a good conversation somehow turn into hours without either person noticing the time.

i’m still discovering new things about myself, and i honestly hope that never stops. i like people who are genuine, self aware, and don’t feel like they have to perform a different personality for everyone they meet.

if you could go back and teach your younger self one lesson, what woul

currently single. my last relationship ended after i got cheateedd, and i think it forced me to grow up a lot faster than i expected.

before all of that, i used to believe people when they told me who they were. now i pay more attention to what they actually do. i’ve watched friendships slowly drift apart, seen people become strangers without either of us realizing it, and learned that the little things usually matter the most. the people who are genuine never have to convince you that they are.

my life is pretty simple these days. i spend a lot of time watching psychological horror movies, looking for another sushi place that’s worth trying, or finding a cozy wine bar with a really good glass of red. i love evenings that don’t have a plan, where the conversation just keeps going because neither person wants to leave.

i’ve always been the type of person who’s curious about something. one week i’m filling pages of a sketchbook, the next i’m reading about a random topic that caught my attention or looking for another series to get completely invested in. i like people who get excited about things and aren’t afraid to show it.

my circle is definitely smaller now than it used to be, but i don’t see that as a bad thing anymore. i’d rather have a few people i genuinely trust than spend time surrounded by people who don’t really know me.

that’s honestly where i’m at in life right now. still learning, still changing, and still believing that the best connections happen when nobody feels like they have to pretend.

what’s something you’ve learned about people that you wish you’d figured out sooner?

i’m convinced the best conversations are the ones neither person planned on having. one minute you’re introducing yourself and the next you’re talking about childhood memories, favorite movies, random opinions, and completely forgetting what time it is.

i’m into anime, horror movies, art, sushi, late night drives, music, and trying new places around the city. i love people with personality, a good sense of humor, and enough confidence to be themselves without pretending to be someone they’re not.

i definitely have a thing for men with a submissive side. i enjoy playful femdomm dynamics, teasing, and someone who’s comfortable letting a woman take the lead sometimes. for me it’s always about chemistry, communication, and finding someone who genuinely enjoys the dynamic.

i’m not looking for the loudest message in my inbox. i’m looking for the one that actually makes me smile.

tell me your age, your neighborhood, and something you’ve always wanted to try but never have. i always find those conversations the most interesting.

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