u/wewherewolves

Hello all!

Long time viewer, first time poster here.

To get to my basic question: How realistic is a MFF?

Context: Me and my wife have discussed swinging and she is open to the idea, yet only wants to have sex with other women if we are in engaging in an activity of this nature. Me, well...I am selfish and cool with this, cause I cant imagine another guy going ham on my lady, but Im not sure as to the realism of an arrangement of this nature happening in the wild.

I could understand another couple not swapping over this, but are there women who will be fine with this and men who would also be okay with this arrangement as well?