u/wowthatscoolbuddy

I am new at understanding this dynamic. And as far as I see online, a big emphasis is put on men being weak and needy when they are submissive.

It almost feels like the concept masculine and submissive is used as contrary to each other - which I am not sure if it’s true.

As someone who feels both masculine and submissive at the same time, I am not sure how to navigate this.

I consider myself a strong, independent, successful gentleman. But I feel naturally submissive in my personal life and happy to be led. Whether if it’s an activity, choosing a meal, sex life.

So just wondering the take of more experienced doms and subs in this sub.