Body count
For both hotwives and husbands to answer I guess.
Wives: Are you in any way internalizing or thinking about your “number”? If not, have you ever or if so how are you processing it internally?
Husbands: Do you think about the number at all?
I introduced my wife to all of this and before me her number was relatively low as she was mainly in LTRs so in a short period of time we have doubled her number. Recently she has shifted from wanting a relationship esque one guy to wanting to try a little more casual and playing the field. - mainly because the ending of the last one was difficult.
I don’t care about the number but I’m thinking about bringing it up to her and telling her it’s not an issue at all. I’m just wondering if by doing so I am planting a seed that I don’t want to plant. She hasn’t said a word and this could all be in my head so wanted to get the opinions of those here.