u/xrthrow712

You are friends with my wife. Maybe you met her through running club, or through guitar classes, or maybe even both. You have really impressed her with your talent and physical fitness, and you spend a lot of time with her doing these hobbies since I am not interested in joining her, and also feel insecure about the things you are good at.

Through these activities, you've grown fond of her, and you can tell she's attracted to you. You know she's married to me, given that I've met you while picking her up from your fun outings. You don't really have a strong opinion of me, but you can sense that I'm passive and submissive, that if you really wanted to, you could probably start an affair with my wife. But being the gentleman you are, you want to feel it out first with both of us.

Kindly - but firmly and decisively - you make your move. You're a confident, handsome, charming guy who has already made a positive impact in my wife's life. You consider her a good friend and want to take things to the next level. You know she's interested. ;)

Elements of emotional cuckolding, emasculation, and D/S dynamic desired

I can't tell you how many times in my life I've competed with black men and lost in just about every arena. Athletics, academics, job promotions, silly lawn games, chess matches, anything really. My biggest insecurities are around my physicality, fitness, and sexuality. When I see these posts online of well endowed, handsome, toned black men my age it really makes me feel small and like a loser compared to myself. Offhanded comments from women in my family about the attractiveness of black athletes over the white athletes. My wife picking the one black personal trainer at her gym over the white ones, and even recommending that I see him, like I could learn a thing or two.

Who knew losing would be so erotic?

Very specific fantasy, one that is painful but so erotic to me.

After her boyfriend knocks her up, she plans a baby shower with all our women family and friends. At the shower, where I am attending, her boyfriend is seated next to her the entire time as she entertains guests, accepts gifts.. her friends and family sending puzzling looks in my direction. Some of them are blushing or even giggling. Her boyfriend is being very charming and sociable, getting along with everyone. Meanwhile I'm barely saying anything but offering my support.

right before she unwraps gifts she announces that her boyfriend is going to be the father of our child, at which point everyone there - having been so charmed by him - gets so excited and begins applauding and offering support and congratulations. The best part: her mother walks right up to her boyfriend and gives him a big hug, expressing her blessing. I'm completely ignored in this but I nonetheless have a smile on my face and am clapping along as well.