u/xxmimii

currently single. my last relationship ended after i got cheateedd, and i honestly think it changed me more than i realized at the time.

these days i pay a lot more attention to actions than words. i’ve watched friendships slowly drift apart, seen people turn into completely different versions of themselves, and learned that consistency says a lot more about someone than promises ever will. i’d rather know who someone really is from the beginning than spend months trying to figure them out.

i’ve learned a lot about myself over the last couple of years too. i realized i’m genuinely into feemdomm, and lately peggging has become something i’ve really enjoyed exploring. it opened my mind to a different side of intimacy, and discovering that part of myself has honestly been one of the few unexpected positives to come from everything i’ve been through.

outside of that, i’m pretty laid back. psychological horror movies are my favorite, sushi is an easy way to convince me to leave the house, and i’m always up for finding a cozy wine bar with a good glass of red. i like nights where you lose track of time because the conversation is better than anything else going on around you.

my circle is a lot smaller these days, and i’m completely okay with that. i’ve reached a point where i’d rather have a handful of genuine people in my life than a long list of names that don’t really mean anything.

that’s pretty much who i am. i’m still learning about myself, still finding new interests, and still looking for people who don’t feel the need to wear a mask around everyone they meet.

what’s something life has taught you recently that you wish you’d understood sooner?

i’m the type that gets attached to good conversations. if we can laugh, tease each other a little, and somehow end up talking until way too late, you’re already ahead of most people.

i’m into anime, horror movies, sushi, art, red wine, and exploring new spots around the city. i go to the gym a few times a week and love people who have hobbies they’re actually excited to talk about.

i’ve definitely got a soft spot for a guy with a submissive side. i like playful femdomm dynamics and someone who’s confident enough to be themselves instead of pretending to be someone they’re not. chemistry, trust, and communication matter more to me than rushing anything.

i’m looking for someone who’s funny, respectful, open-minded, and can carry a conversation without making it feel like an interview. quality always beats quantity.

tell me something that actually says something about you. what’s your favorite horror movie, the last anime you binged, or one thing you’re secretly obsessed with?

maybe we’ll end up being each other’s favorite notification.

currently single. my last relationship ended after i got cheateedd, and looking back, i think it changed me in ways i never really expected.

these days i pay a lot more attention to actions than words. i’ve watched friendships slowly drift apart, seen people become completely different from who i thought they were, and realized i’d rather know the honest version of someone from day one than spend months trying to figure them out later. life feels a lot simpler when people are comfortable being themselves.

i’ve learned a lot about myself over the last couple of years too. i realized i’m really into feemdomm, and lately peggging has become something i’ve genuinely enjoyed exploring. it opened my mind to a different side of intimacy, and discovering new parts of myself has honestly been one of the few unexpected positives to come out of everything i’ve been through.

when i’m not working, i’m usually watching psychological horror movies, looking for another sushi place to try, or finding a cozy wine bar with a good glass of red. i’m the type of person who’d rather lose track of time over a great conversation than spend the night somewhere loud.

my friend group is a lot smaller now, but i’m actually happy with that. i’d rather have a few people i can completely trust than a big circle where nobody really knows each other.

that’s honestly me. still learning, still finding new interests, and trying to build connections with people who are genuine, curious, and unapologetically themselves.

what’s something you’ve learned about yourself over the last couple of years that you never expected?

currently single. my last relationship ended after i got cheateedd, and i honestly think it changed the way i look at people more than anything else.

these days i care a lot more about consistency than perfect words. i’ve watched friendships slowly fade, seen people become completely different from who i thought they were, and realized i’d rather know the real version of someone from the beginning than spend months trying to figure them out later. life feels a lot easier when people are simply themselves.

i’ve learned a lot about myself over the last couple of years too. i realized i’m really into feemdomm, and lately peggging has become something i’ve genuinely enjoyed exploring. it opened my mind to a completely different side of intimacy, and discovering new things about myself has honestly been one of the few unexpected positives to come from everything i’ve been through.

when i’m not working or relaxing at home, i’m usually watching psychological horror movies, finding another sushi spot to try, or looking for a cozy place that serves good red wine. i’m the kind of person who’d rather spend hours talking over dinner than rush through the night.

my circle is definitely smaller than it used to be, but i don’t really mind anymore. i’d rather have a few honest people around me than a lot of people who don’t know who they really are.

that’s honestly me. still figuring life out, still collecting new experiences, and hoping to meet people who don’t feel like they have to pretend to be anyone else.

so… what’s something that’s changed the way you see people?

currently single. my last relationship ended after i got cheateedd, and i don’t think i realized how much it would change me until much later.

i’ve become a lot more selective about the people i let into my life. over time i watched a few friendships fade, a few people show sides of themselves i never expected, and it made me realize how much i value honesty. i’d rather meet someone who’s comfortable being themselves than someone trying to be whoever they think i want.

i’ve learned a lot about myself over the last couple of years too. i realized i’m genuinely into feemdomm, and discovering peggging opened my mind to a side of intimacy i never expected to enjoy. it wasn’t something i planned on discovering about myself, but the more i learned, the more i realized it genuinely fit who i am.

outside of that, i’m honestly pretty laid back. horror movies and psychological thrillers are always my first choice, sushi is probably my favorite meal, and i’m always up for trying a new red wine or finding a place with good cocktails and even better conversation.

my circle is a lot smaller now than it used to be, and i’m actually okay with that. i’d rather spend time with a handful of genuine people than wonder where i stand with a room full of strangers.

that’s pretty much me. still figuring life out, still finding new interests, and still believing the best connections happen when nobody feels like they have to pretend.

what about you? what’s something that’s changed the way you see people?