Can’t orgasms with boyfriend
me F and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 7 months. we’re each others firsts. but I haven't orgasmed once from his touch or penetration. it’s not that he hasn’t put in the effort before but it’s been a couple of weeks since he really tried so we’re not really making progress. he has made me squirt several times but for me that only take a couple seconds of hard fingering.
for context, I started masturbating when I was young. but I didn’t do it the traditional way I syntribated (i can’t really explain what it is, but it is a super fast way to have an orgasm it usually takes me 5 minutes maximum). when I was in my early teens I started masturbating traditionally and experimented with a vibrator. I would come but it would sometimes take 40 minutes to an hour. coming like this feels more like a chore than something to enjoy so I don’t do it very often. I have explained this to him and reassured him that I can understand he doesn’t have time to finger my clit at the right speed and pressure for an hour everytime we have sex. ofcourse I enjoy the sex even without coming and I don’t expect to come everytime we have sex but I would be nice to reach my high a little faster so that it doesnt feel like a chore for either of us and ruins the mood.
yes he has eaten me out before but I understand that he doesn’t last more than 10 minutes and to be honest I don’t really enjoy it that much. and no rubbing myself during sec doesn’t make me come nor does touching myself next to him.
im really desperate for advice for me to touch myself as he’s inside me or for him when he touches me because im starting to get annoyed at the thought of having sex when I know he’ll come and I again wont