I don't know if it's a trust thing or a red flag?
My partner is into cross dressing/ sissification.. I have no problem with that at all. Once it became a known thing we swiftly added it into our many bedroom( and non bedroom activities)
I've been completely open and accepting of all of their kinks and fetishes and tried to accommodate wherever I can.
So how should I be reacting to finding out he's recently joined multiple sissy/ crossdressing/ dominatrix sites ( I believe they are designed to match and meet people) and didn't tell me even when I asked if they were on any other sites ( I don't care about being on sites, I just like to be informed on which ones (( this goes both ways))
I completely understand and respect that for some people this side of them is private and they find it hard to share ( I know my bf does)... but I'm struggling with the fact that it's something I know about but he's still keeping things hidden when I've openly shared that I accept him fully for who he is and what he enjoys.