u/yesmysweetnesss

TLDR - Book recommendation for those who enjoy Femdom, but not erasure of the aspects the female partner respects/desires.

Some of you may recognize us, we’ve been on Reddit for years.

We have a bunch of credits on Audible and my Queen wants to get a book that explores Femdom (more as a guide/idea/reference, not a dark romance).

This in itself would be easy to find, but based on our current situation and mental states, a full on FLR is not practical. She wants to acknowledge semi-traditional gender roles within our relationship, to allow me to lead and be the head of the house hold OUTSIDE the bedroom, but she enjoys being in charge in the bed room. She wants to balance this and enjoy this part of our lives responsibly. She has no desire for a full on FLR. All the books I have seen are basically “You are the best, men are cattle.” Or “you should make every decision and he should fall in line.” Granted my scope into these books is limited to say the least

Does anyone have any book suggestions that may have a better balance? A he rules the roost, she rules the rooster kind of thing? Like a traditional couple who just enjoys a bit of power play and prioritizing the woman’s pleasure in the bedroom?

Thanks!