is “losing” my virginity in a threesome a bad idea?
i don’t know how this will be received but please be kind!!! i’m fragile😭for context, i’m 19F and recently came across a couple on hinge (19 F/M) who were looking for someone to have a threesome with. i messaged them kind of just for fun not thinking they’d message back (im plus size and not crazy hot or curvy so i don’t get many matches) but they did and after talking for a bit and me asking questions we moved to snapchat. We’ve been messaging on there in a group chat for a few days now and im really thinking about meeting them at least casually first and if that goes well then probably to have sex.
i have never been in a relationship, never even held hands with someone romantically, so i really wasn’t expecting to feel so at ease and comfortable when talking to a couple who want to have sex with me. every other conversation i’ve had with someone i’ve met on hinge has felt so forced and awkward but with them it’s just so easy, it definitely helps that they’re just looking for a fwb situation and not a polyamorous relationship. they also compliment me constantly and make me feel so confident in myself without feeling like they just want to use me.
another benefit to this situation is that im autistic and new situations are very scary for me and it’s sex/intimacy is a big reason why ive avoided getting into a relationship, i feel like if i can do this with them it will help me out in future relationships.
am i being naive by thinking this is a good idea? my gut tells me it would be a good thing for me. also any advice before going into this situation?