Any advice for incorporating kinky pain management techniques while giving birth in a hospital?
I am 34 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My husband is my Dom and we've been in a TPE for our entire relationship. Aside from like one or two spanks during sex we have not done any pain play during my pregnancy. I think that was the right call but I feel rusty and I'm nervous about labor! I'm planning to do it fully unmedicated.
We primarily have anal but we have also been having more vaginal sex to prepare for labor. I think the anal will help because I feel like I'm probably more experienced with relaxing my pelvic floor than most women.
In general I think my bdsm experience will be an asset but I'm not sure exactly how to leverage it to have the best birth I can.
I'm planning to labor at home for as long as possible and I want to use my Hitachi while at home. That always helps with pain management.
But what about once I'm in the hospital? I'm not comfortable bringing my Hitachi there. I don't want the nurses to walk in on my husband doing nipple stimulation either.
Aside from him coaching me through breathing, is there any way we can incorporate bdsm techniques into the labor process while not shocking the nurses (and my mother)?