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43 [F4M] #EST #US – Nerdy Sub seeks Nerdier Dom
About Me
Best described as the librarian type, both in style and personality (sadly not in profession). I prefer to please and default to politeness, but will shut down rudeness or ill-intentioned disrespect. Deferential, just won't be a doormat.
- Physically, I'm 5'2" and top-light, bottom-heavy (translation: thick shorty with small breasts and big ass). If that type of curvy is not your taste, there are so many other lovely ladies posting here.
- Professionally, I am a control freak. Privately, I enjoy ceding control to the right person. I adore praise and can be persuaded into restraints and impact play, among other things.
- Hard limits include polyamory, bathroom related activities, permanent damage, anything illegal, racism, and people who fail to credit scientific evidence (e.g., anti-vaxxers).
About You
A Dom that is sapiosexual, demisexual, and monogamous.
- Physically, taller than me in heels (it's a low bar) and sturdy enough to lean on when I inevitably trip. For age, similar or older is preferred. Please also be DDF.
- Motivation is important. If you're looking to fuel a need to break or destroy, we won't get along. But if you're driven by a desire to bring order and a little more pleasure to the world, enjoy control as well as the accompanying responsibility, then we may be well suited.
- Patience is critical. Time is the best way to reveal character.
Final Notes
If the above aligns with your interests, I would love to learn about you. Please include your favorite book in your first message. I don't submit easily as expectations are high for my Dom, but once we do meet, I can be so very good.
u/yuzuwhiskey — 1 day ago