u/zestylego

I’ll try to keep this short. I started masturbating when I was in like 6 or 7th grade so around 11-12 years old ish. I’ve always done it laying on my stomach rubbing my clit. Then when I became sexually active years later, I would be on my back during sex. The penetration feels nice but I can’t orgasm from that, which I’ve learned is common. But even when my partner rubs my clit it feels good but I can’t orgasm, same thing during oral sex. I thought it was maybe an anxiety thing but I’ve been with this person for years and we’ve tried setting the mood and relaxing and lots of foreplay and I feel fully comfortable and worry free but I just can’t orgasm with someone. I am also extremely attracted to my partner so it’s not that. I’ve tried lying on my stomach during sex but the angle is awkward and uncomfortable for us. I’ve also tried masturbating in different positions but I can’t make myself orgasm either, I have once but it took forever and didn’t feel the best. Do I just need to keep touching myself in other positions? Or am I just broken lol.

I also don’t really feel much when I touch my clit now, like it doesn’t feel any different from touching my arm. I can still rub and get an orgasm and that part feels good. Have I just rubbed all my sensation away over the years?