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We're exploring the idea of a relaxed community getaway this winter and would love to know who's interested.

Proposed plan: Phuket, Thailand (preferred) or another Southeast Asian beach destination. Budget around ₹10,000–15,000 per night, with everyone booking their own flights and accommodation so there's complete flexibility.

The focus is on meeting like-minded people while keeping the trip mostly unstructured. We'd have just a few common events, such as a welcome cocktail evening, a "Speaking Tree" beach gathering where anyone can share stories or ideas, an inspiring guest talk (someone like Seema Anand), and one optional group dinner or yacht/bar evening. The rest of the time is yours to relax, explore, socialise, or make your own plans.

There will be no organised sexual activities—this is about creating a comfortable, respectful environment where people can connect naturally. A simple event T-shirt, cap, or similar identifier could help us recognise each other.

We're aiming for around 30 couples (minimum 10 couples to make it viable), with singles limited to about 20% of the group. If there's enough interest, we could even do a Goa meet-up in November followed by Phuket in December.

If this sounds like something you'd enjoy, let us know. This is just the initial concept, and we'd love your ideas and feedback before we start planning.

We plan to organise a offline event for 5 days. It will be for unwinding, sex talks, speaking tree events and discussions. Please give your choice of location and time. 80% couples 20%singles.

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We plan to organise a offline event for 5 days. It will be for unwinding, sex talks, speaking tree events and discussions. Please give your choice of location and time. 80% couples 20%singles.

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We are just about to start our slow-travel European summer for July–September 2026. Instead of hopping between cities every couple of days, we'll be spending nearly three months exploring Italy, Germany, the Netherlands and France at a relaxed pace—12 nights near Rome, a couple of days in Munich, over a week in Den Haag while visiting family in Rotterdam, two weeks in Cap d'Agde, more than a month in Provence, and finishing with two weeks on the French Riviera. Almost all our travel is overland using Italian high-speed trains, German ICE trains, French TGVs and long-distance coaches because we enjoy watching the landscape change rather than flying over it. Most of our accommodation has been arranged through HomeExchange .com , making a long European stay surprisingly affordable ( which is the key to long vacations) while allowing us to live more like locals than tourists. We enjoy beaches, naturist destinations, good food and wine, spas, photography, small villages, local markets and meeting genuine, open-minded people along the way. We're an easy-going, international lifestyle couple in our 50s from India, and we're already looking ahead to our next adventure in Australia during December 2026–January 2027. If you're an Australian or another travelling couple who enjoys slow travel, road trips, beaches, social evenings and making new friends, we'd love to connect and perhaps plan part of the journey together.

We are just about to start our slow-travel European summer for July–September 2026. Instead of hopping between cities every couple of days, we'll be spending nearly three months exploring Italy, Germany, the Netherlands and France at a relaxed pace—12 nights near Rome, a couple of days in Munich, over a week in Den Haag while visiting family in Rotterdam, two weeks in Cap d'Agde, more than a month in Provence, and finishing with two weeks on the French Riviera. Almost all our travel is overland using Italian high-speed trains, German ICE trains, French TGVs and long-distance coaches because we enjoy watching the landscape change rather than flying over it. Most of our accommodation has been arranged through HomeExchange .com , making a long European stay surprisingly affordable ( which is the key to long vacations) while allowing us to live more like locals than tourists. We enjoy beaches, naturist destinations, good food and wine, spas, photography, small villages, local markets and meeting genuine, open-minded people along the way. We're an easy-going, international lifestyle couple in our 50s from India, and we're already looking ahead to our next adventure in Australia during December 2026–January 2027. If you're an Australian or another travelling couple who enjoys slow travel, road trips, beaches, social evenings and making new friends, we'd love to connect and perhaps plan part of the journey together.

Searching for emotional company is far more fraught with risk than searching for plain sex (if that even exists). We both agree that plain sex doesn’t exist. 

The game has to be played. What Indians are finding troublesome is that, in this game, you need two people. Making money, going to the gym, buying a big house or car, even masturbating to your fantasies — all of that can be done alone. But here, you need a partner. 

It’s not just Indian men who are turning into submissive geeks; Indian women are also becoming more trusting of dogs than of men. Naturally, dogs are more submissive. But a dog can’t fuck or throw tantrums — so it’s working both ways. 

Most Indian men want a European-style sexual experience and an Indian “slave wife” at home. Meanwhile, many Indian women believe that since they earn money, their only utility is to give sex until the age of 30, after which the maid can take over the duties — not just cooking, but also providing the sizzle. 

Hardly any Indian women now know how to fulfill the desires of Indian men. I’d love to see single Indian men — who come across as sperm-holding dipstick carriers — try to make a sexy, independent woman serve them poha for breakfast and lusty sex at night. 

And I’d love to see Indian women try to convince a hardy Italian why she needs to buy jewellery on a credit card to express her happiness to her family. 

Single men from the group send disappearing photos of their BMWs (how vain is that?) or of their bare-chested, muscled bodies. What do you expect? 

I says they’re so confused that some bitch is going to fuck them without oil. 

To conclude: “The aim of a relationship is to have longevity, not efficiency.”

Hi everyone, we’re an open-minded, well-travelled couple based in Koregaon Park, Pune ( India) who enjoy meeting like-minded couples and exploring new places together. We travel often and prefer connecting with people who value good sex but also comfort, and natural chemistry. When we’re in a new city, what else would make it a better experience if we can meet, spend time, and if there’s mutual attraction, have lots of horny sex — always with respect and no expectations or pressure. We live a balanced lifestyle with an interest in fitness, yoga, and meditation, and we’re easygoing, discreet, and socially confident. We also host at our place in Pune and enjoy returning the same warmth and hospitality we receive while travelling. If you feel we might vibe, feel free to reach out and connect—more about us - Please DM

If you like us, do connect. we can travel anywhere in the world, Priority places- South America- Australia and SEA.