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I(22f) have recently been very frustrated sexually and need some toy for personal care.

I heard Reddit is good for exploring your boundaries. New to this. 😉💃

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So Im in a relationship with my girl for 10 months. Everything is going good as of now, out sex life is also going good, but told her about my fantasies like doing in public places, in hotel balcony, role play, etc. But she never tell me about her fantasies she just tell she never had one and it break my heart a little because how can you not fantasise the person you’re in love with. And I also want to tell her fantasies like couple swapping, threesome etc.

Can any girl or experienced men help me with this?

Wont go into details here, but I (19M) at the start of my 1st sem last year, while playing truth or dare confessed that I have a humiliation kink, and I get aroused if I am humiliated or embarrassed,due to past experience.

They have associated it with bottom or submissive behaviour and they sometimes treat me like that. Its not the case, but it still turns me on cuz its embarrassing.

And lately it has gotten out of hand, and i get scared about my social anxiety and self respect. But I find it hard to say no sometimes, and its embarrassing but I do like it.

I live in a residential university, so it’s constant, and I dont know what to do. I am very confused.

What should I do. Currently I have no problem but I fear it could get bad. I am unable to control it, and too weak to set boundaries. Tell ???

I’m not sharing any incidents or details in post as I dont want to risk getting recognised here, but if you need more details to answer, I can share…

I’m a 35-year-old married guy from Delhi, and my wife is 36. We’ve dated for about 2 years, and have now been married for another 2 years. We also have a baby together.

Since an early age, I’ve had strong sissy, submissive and cuckold tendencies.

My wife, she doesn’t know about my submissive and sissy desires.

Although I had told about my bisexual nature in the dating phase to my wife, and we had an intense discussion where I calmed her told her when a bi-cycle comes we can manage it together by using tools like toys, or porn, or even a threesome, but we had left the conversation there and never further talked about it. It’s been 2 years if not more since we had this talk.

However, while dating, our relationship dynamic was the complete opposite. My wife is very submissive, and our sex life was about me being dominant with her in a daddy-kitten relationship.

I was usually acting that dominant role rather than feeling it. After spending time with her during dating days, I’d return home and get back to my own sissy side by wearing panties, using dildos or talking to men on grindr.

After marriage, pregnancy, and becoming parents, our sex life slowly disappeared. For roughly the last year and a half, we’ve not been intimate at all. But reason for that is not anything as my wife wants it, she’s turned on and craves me but during this time, my attraction toward men continued to grow, and now I’m not sure if I’m attracted sexually. It’s usually me who has refused her advances and she has used vibratory to satisfy her urges.

More recently, I’ve tried faking it in bed and be more sexually active. My wife has been enthusiastic and patient, but I’m struggling to become aroused by women in the way I used to. She has spent hours trying to help me get hard, yet I find myself unable to. And it’s really not her, it’s me. At this point, our is basically me using my fingers and tongue to satisfy her.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s not that I don’t love her. Really do love her a lot and want to keep that love alive and will work extra hard for that, but I need help in fulfilling her sexual life, something which I feel I’m unable to provide.

I’ve realised that both of us are submissive, with fantasies revolving around surrendering control to a stronger, more dominant man. For her till now that was me. Now I feel I need to pass that torch to a more true person.

Ideally, one things are set and you are moulding are relationship through me, we’d like to begin by exploring a traditional MMF dynamic where both men focus on the woman together but some streaks of bisexuality. Over time, I’d be interested in shifting more authority and control toward the third man.

I am particularly attracted to dominant bisexual men who enjoy both male and female submission. The idea of a man who can lead, direct, mentor, and shape a couple’s dynamic over time is incredibly appealing to me.

Who I’m looking for:

1. A bisexual dominant man interested in both my wife and me
2. Someone naturally confident, assertive, and controlling
3. Muscular, fit, healthy, a big cock is a plus
4. Hairy and traditionally manly is a plus
5. Well-educated, respectful, hygienic, and emotionally mature
6. Creative and imaginative
7. Interested in building something long-term rather than a one-time encounter
8. patient as this will require work and to and fro conversation.
9. Someone interested in chatting regularly and building trust first
10. Someone willing to micro manage and give me daily tasks to fulfil to assert my submissive nature and to progress the dynamic in moulding my relationship

At the end of the day, I’m not looking for someone who simply wants sex. I’m looking for a dominant man who enjoys taking charge, building trust, exploring fantasies, and potentially helping guide a couple into a new chapter of their intimate life.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to reach out and introduce yourself.

I am tired of just stroking my cock, suggest me something interesting

Curious about other women's preferences. I love getting eaten out. When my partner is down there licking me, it drives me crazy and gets me incredibly turned on.

But if I had to choose, I'd pick getting fucked every time. As amazing as being licked feels, there's just something about getting fucked that feels more intense and satisfying.

Am I the only one, or are there other women here who'd choose getting fucked over being eaten out?

P.S. My partner is amazing at both, so this isn't about skill just curious about other women's preferences.

Hey guys,

Me and my wife got married recently and we’re doing the long distance thing, so we sext a lot. She’s pretty introverted and shy in normal life, but with me she’s super open and has zero shame. She actually keeps telling me to degrade her more, use filthier talk, and treat her rougher.

Our biggest thing right now is rough sex from behind while someone watches... especially the idea of people getting glimpses. We go deep into fantasies about balconies, cars, risky situations, etc. She loves being called names and objectified but still likes the sweet stuff mixed in.

She’s fully okay with me sharing some of our anonymized sexting chats. I’m not sure where to post them though. Looking for active subreddits where couples share text chats, exhibitionist/hotwife type stuff, and watching kinks.

Any recommendations? Which ones are good and actually active? Tips on how to post without getting removed would be helpful too.

Thanks!