r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r

I just wanted to share, since success stories are what made me try Reddit in the first place. pay it forward lol.

I'm a fit 40m in nova. posted twice on here looking for an fwb and as someone exploring kinks as a potential pleasure dom. my first post only a couple messages. one did end up with a date and a hookup. she was very direct in messaging (about logistics). after several weeks of quiet we finally met for a coffee. I invited her over. after we got comfortable talking a little I asked if I could eat her pussy. after she came the first time I made her squirt. and then I watched her eyes roll back while I fucked her hard in missionary. it was good to be back in the game. heard from her again months later but decided that wasn't gonna be a fit for me.

I also reached out by sliding into other people's dms. this has a much lower rate of success but I met a a friend, couple incredible women, a couple average women. and only 1 kinda crazy woman. I didn't choose to have sex w every one I met but please note women in reddit be horny.

my second post was more effective. filled out my profile a little more. made my post a little more kink friendly (as I gravitate in that direction). a lot more messages from women that seemed pretty amazing. my text game isn't great, and I got thrown by the pace and amount of messages (not even that many compared to any female). messaging is very sporadic, so it's important for men to just remember to be chill and patient. the woman I met from the second post was absolutely incredible. gorgeous, and really sexy. after a couple weeks of silence she texted and wanted to meet the same day. she showed up to my neighborhood bar in an absolutely provocative outfit lol. best BJ of my life. absolutely delicious pussy. Just a great lady all around.

so if you've been thinking about trying to meet someone on reddit, you can find some really good luck on here.

Better late than never, am I right?

To be entirely honest, I initially didn't feel inclined to share that I've had success from here, not only for the original game I posted, but also for a recent USA game (v Bosnia and Herzegovina, not against Belgium where apparently they were crushed- I was fast asleep for that one last night).

But when I recalled just how adamantly some people rejected my PG post, to the point of feeling emboldened to comment that "I was on the wrong sub," and that "it didn't make much sense to post in a NSFW context." I felt it was important to show that SFW meetups are not only allowed on the subreddit but have just as much chance of being successful as NSFW posts.

When I was successful with a NSFW post last year, I made it a point to post when my success occurred (although it admittedly took what felt like eons) because I wanted the girlies to know that there are actually some quality guys lurking on here.

So here I am again.

Both times were refreshingly pleasant to just meet up for the fun of it. No expectations, or intense pressure of "will they find me attractive,"/ "will I find them attractive" etc etc.

Just two people, coming together to watch 'the beautiful game,' despite venues being packed to literal capacity.

On both occasions, we grabbed a drink and enjoyed casual conversation during the game/ hydration breaks/ half time etc. and it was a nice change of pace during the work week/ weekend, spending time with people outside my regular social sphere.

Additionally, neither of them seem to be one offs, since I still chat occasionally with them both about next potential meetups.

We are coming down to the end of the World Cup ;'( unfortunately, but I still have ongoing chats with folks willing to catch a game or two before it wraps up. Coincidently and unbeknownst to us at the time, one of those Redditors and I were at the same venue for the last France game, merely feet apart. We only put two and two together that night, after the game.

Anyways, the point?

Despite my post being PG/ SFW, I still had what I would consider a significant amount of responses (double digits, beyond the teens, and a few that still trickle in despite my post being over 20 days old).

There are so many homebodies, like myself, looking for the opportunity to get out of our house (and comfort zones) to socialize this summer, in the MD/DC/NoVa area.

So to recap, no- my original post was not on the wrong sub. Just because the overwhelming majority of people choose to use this subreddit to seek NSFW connections, doesn't mean that is the sole purpose of the sub. And don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Alright, alright...I'll step off my soap box... for now.

Happy rest of the World Cup and....Allez les bleus!

Interested in finding an BWC fwb that like chubby milfs

It’s been three long years… I swore off men, or so I thought… but umm, ya girls got needs. 😋

i’ve realized i don’t really care about perfect pickup lines. i’d rather meet someone who can make me laugh, keep a conversation going, and actually enjoy getting to know each other instead of rushing everything.

i’m into anime, horror movies, art, sushi, late night drives, and finding new places around the city. i like people with hobbies, opinions, and stories to tell. personality is what keeps my attention.

i’ve always been drawn to guys with a submissive side. there’s something attractive about someone who’s open-minded, enjoys a confident woman, and understands that good chemistry is built on trust, communication, and mutual respect. if you’re into femdomm dynamics, we’ll probably have plenty to talk about.

quality over quantity always. i’d rather have one conversation that leaves me smiling than twenty that all feel the same.

don’t just say hi. tell me what you’re passionate about, what you’ve been watching lately, or something completely random that makes you different. i always answer the messages that give me something to work with.

hi !

so yeah like the title says I only want to be worshiped and treated like a queen.. quite within reason of course but my attachment style is kinda better when the person is cool with sensitivity/ providing leadership of hangs and stuff :)

me ~ a cutie patootie I promise, 5’4 &185 lbs latina and I will send pics after you do !!
you ~ know what you wanna do, who you are ect. between 25-35 and can handle providing 420 as a bonding experience :3

don’t play with my heart <3 i’ve got too many feelings for fwb

Send stats/pic I can host

I'm bored and new around , I'm looking for something casual with someone nearby and mature , I'm newly single and have a son (if that's a deal breaker please don't text me) . I can host at my place and I'm only looking for something physical(not online). If you're open to this we should get along well!

I feel cooped up and want to have some fun tonight. Who cares if it’s Sunday. Let’s paint the town red.

I’m 5’2”. 130. Curvy petite Latina. Brown curly hair. Big brown eyes. Don’t worry. I’m cute and I’ve got a bangin bod.

I’m looking for someone attractive and in shape, age 32-48, to meet at a bar for a drink or two and then absolutely plow my brains out. (With a condom on of course!)

If you’re interested in something TONIGHT let me know where you’re located, how quickly you’d be able to mobilize to get somewhere, and what you look like.

If you read this whole thing and you meet the requirements then begin your message with your favorite color so I can know to respond to you first.

Seeking a fwb type situation with a respectful, nerdy, athletic guy with a healthy sex drive. Looking to do fun things outside the bedroom like biking or dancing and then having fun after.

I have pics on my profile and will be happy to share more once we chat more.

If interested, message me with your age, height, where in the city you are located, and a fav thing you like to do.

Picture and video will be needed for verification purposes :)

Hello, I’m a fun mom and wife searching for a nice man to enjoy some time together when I’m in town next month (August). I love having a wild fun time especially with big dicks.

Tall, dark brown hair, green eyes, talented tongue.

Please be into fat moms… I’m slutty but I need you to be respectful and willing to build rapport.

Please be 6.5+ and over 25.

Will not take your virginity.

Only interested in attractive men.

Actually introduce yourselves please. I won’t respond to ‘Hi’

I would like both face and cock pics pretty quickly. Happy to reciprocate.

I’m not a free OF model and I’m not going to give you stuff to jerk off to. Ergh

looking for someone to suck on my tits, eat, and finger me without reciprocation. sorry, pillow princess here.

can’t host, looking for you to host near my location!

me: curvy thicc girl, brown curly hair, tan
you: 25-under 40s, WM

send a bit about you to start!

You host or CarPlay. I suck and swallow. Please be clean and discreet. Sunday only

We're not in the city but wife goes regularly for work and is looking for a FWB. We're new to hotwife stuff but she's game. 34, 5'6, white, brunette, cute, fit. Looking for someone bull-ish she can connect with while she's there. basically this has been my fantasy forever. I brought this up to her before we got married, but never that seriously. sort of as half jokes, which she laughed off until she didn't. she has no prior experience with anything remotely like this, super normal girl next door type. mostly just looking for a FWB-type thing. I don't want to be there, I'm ok letting her play solo as long as I find someone that's ok with talking to me about it as things progress. Tell me about yourself or you'll likely be ignored.

34 M here.. cant edit post so editing here. Normal 6” dick needs to be drained. Opposite Columbia mall. No Strings attached. Drugs and disease free. Discreet and down low. Looking for rigt now. Please DM

32 white, 6ft, 250lbs, masc dad bod. Short hair, short beard. I just need my throat fucked. Anything else you want is fine. I’m down for any rough play. Blow and go type of thing. Can be fwb if we vibe, but not what I’m looking for right now.

Any men in the Frederick area that are mobile and want to be my company. My 4th hasn’t been the best and I’m not ready for the night to end. Please be clean and fit. BBC preferred overall but other fit tatted men may be cool too.

Im a 30 year old white guy. Average height, athletic build. Plenty masculine enough to pass as completely straight if you met me in public. A little different behind closed doors.

Looking for straight, married, bi, or closeted guys who need a discreet, no strings release. I keep things completely anonymous, no pics (dick pics are fine!), no awkward small talk, just sit back, relax, and enjoy while I take us both to heaven.

I'm a machine built for your pleasure. I love giving long, enthusiastic head. Deep, wet, sloppy blowjobs that take their time. No rushing. I'll worship your dick for as long as you want, focusing entirely on making it feel incredible. When you're ready to finish, your choice. Down my throat or all over my face. And, yes of course I swallow.

You host. I show up, get to work, and leave. Simple as that.

Hit me up if you need a regular outlet that stays strictly between us.

Masc and discrete guy looking for fun

Down to swallow a load or get pounded

Can host or travel

DDF and recently tested on PREP

5’11 195 Hispanic

Hit me up