r/Christianswithkinks

I saw a TikTok video yesterday of a young Christian woman who posts videos talking about sex from a Christian and Biblical perspective, meant to help educate young Christians before and leading up to marriage.

In the video she discussed the topic of anal sex in a Christian marriage.

Her position was essentially that there is no Biblical prohibition on the act of anal sex taking place between a consenting married couple, despite how many Christians have tries to hijack certain scriptures to suggest that it is sinful - which I agree with and applaud her for being objective and honest about, despite it being clear that she does not like or advocate for anal sex in Christian marriages.

Additionally, while she stated that while she thinks it is possible for a couple to engage in it, in a positive way that enhances their intimacy - she also strongly insinuated that this isn’t the norm and that very often it is the husband pressuring his wife into something she doesn’t want to do or finds uncomfortable/painful, because of his fixation on depictions of anal in porn.

I found this second part to be somewhat unfair, and unnecessarily critical of men who find anal sex appealing. While I fully agree that there are a lot of men who developed their fantasies and desires from watching porn, which is unhealthy, I don’t think it is fair to lump all men together by generalizing that their desires must always mean they are formed by perverse or unhealthy sexual habits.

I am a (single) male that has been very turned on by the idea of having anal sex with a future wife, for as long as i can remember. I will admit to having viewed it in porn, but i developed this fascination with the idea of anal sex many years before i even viewed porn for the first time. Porn did not shape my desire for it.

I think the topic of anal sex among Christians is extremely difficult to discuss openly because of the strong feelings associated with it. Even among non-radically fundamentalist Christians who have more open minded views, the topic is so taboo that they usually default to saying “theres nothing in the Bible about it - but we still think its always bad and that nobody should do it, and if you do want to do it, its probably because you’re a slave to your sexual sins”. Nobody ever wants to be the one to say “it can be good, it’s ok to want it and to do it as long as it’s done right and with love”.

TL;DR

Even today, most modern Christian perspectives on anal sex still air on the side of “it’s never good, even if the Bible doesn’t prohibit it. And men should feel shame for wanting it.”

What are your thoughts on anal sex within a Christian marriage?

Do you agree that it is something that is most commonly requested by men who want it solely because their desire was formed by their porn habit?

Would like to test the waters by sharing nudes to test the water to get comfortable.

I am an older dad in Houston Texas - whom you would never suspect of craving an adult woman wanting to please me and be pleased by me sexually.

I am tall, fit, masculine, conventionally attractive with silver-fox looks, with an easy-going, charming and interesting mind with whom you will quickly feel at ease when we break the ice together.

The feel of your touch, the sound of your moans and the erotic feeling of your hands and soft mouth on me and mine on you and I love returning the favor with my warm, wet, experienced and eager tongue...

Discretion 100%. If you are curious about older men and desire to cross that experience off of your sexual bucket list...Please allow me to help you out;)

Please be within an hour of the greater Houston Texas area..

I am a white male Christian and lonely..

Blessings

Do you like to have online/virtual discussions of a sexual nature, whether anonymous or with people you actually know? Or is that too far for you? And does your partner (if you have one) know?

Who's brave?

Who's down rn?

I get hard and so turned on at the thought of myself and someone sharing pics of our wives and jerking off to them, but with our wives not knowing about being seen by someone else...

My wife and I have played with another couple and those memories turn me on and give me more thoughts and desires related to free sexual use. Anyone else daydream wishing for this type of shared sexual pleasure?

Somos um casal cristão abertos à vida e com kink de reprodução.

No meio cristão, o kink de reprodução tem uma prevalência maior, tanto para homens, quanto para mulheres, adoraria conhecer mais pessoas, que tenham esse kink, ou casais que tenham esse kink para conversarmos...