Co-Ed Communal Masturbation Experiences?

Curious if anyone—married or single—has experience with a co-ed masturbation group. Though it's pretty common for dudes to have JO buds (real and virtual), I'm always surprised that there aren't Christian communal masturbation groups IRL (open to singles, marrieds, and everyone in between). Seems like a missed opportunity to fellowship with others while enjoying the beauty of sexuality we've been given.

Thoughts? Experiences? Care to share stories? Would love to have something like this in real life that felt normal, natural, and like a regular part of our community.

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u/MrIsAlwaysAlone — 2 days ago
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Married Christians Who Engage in Group or Mutual Masturbation

Are there married Christians who engage in group masturbation (same or mixed gender) or mutual masturbation with friends other than their spouse? I haven't found any good discussions or resources examining this, and I'd love to hear from those who've done this and what your thoughts are on whether it's within bounds maritally.

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u/MrIsAlwaysAlone — 13 days ago

Helping Fellow Sisters and Brothers with Dead Bedrooms

Curious to gauge where folks are in their theological understandings of fellow brothers and sisters helping one another out when they are trapped in dead bedroom situations. Are there exceptions that allow us to *assist* one another in fulfilling our God-given sexuality, or does the covenant of marriage forever doom us to sexless-ness? I know there are plenty of theological interpretations that allow for outside explorations within a marriage so long as consent is involved, but didn't know if there was any thinking about how a sister or brother could help each other out when the other is forced into marital abstinence against their will.

Not looking for an excuse, per se, but definitely looking for insights on how sisters and brothers have made it through/sought help that they can't get at home while remaining within their covenantal bounds.

{Edit: Updated last paragraph for clarity of what I am curious to know.]

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u/MrIsAlwaysAlone — 2 months ago

Enjoying More Sexual Freedom Underneath the Exterior

Even though I’m in a generally sexless/sexually-limiting relationship, I’ve found myself opening up more thanks to all of the wonderful community here and on r/christiansexuality.

One such way is in what I choose not to wear under my clothing…specifically underwear. As a straight cis man, I’ve come to enjoy wearing jockstraps more or nothing at all under my pants. Logistically, it’s so much more comfortable and feels cleaner. On a different level, it feels like I’m opening myself sexually to situations I know will never happen or allow myself to engage. It’s like reclaiming a part of being an openly sexual creature in a creation stained by the shame of hiding. It’s not nudism, per se, because a part of me finds it highly erotic and a turn on…a fantasy that I’m almost always ready to go if a situation presents itself. On another level, a story I read on MarriageHeat (https://marriageheat.com/2026/06/04/ericas-first-time-sans-part-1/) really resonated: it’s about heightening awareness that I’m naked underneath it all. And that feels sexy… like I’m in a world where we can all ultimately experience the Garden and fuck where we are.

Wondering if others have ever felt or experienced this? Not from a nudism perspective necessarily, but in terms of opening yourself sexually while still remaining faithful. What fantasies does that create? What does that feel like for you?

u/MrIsAlwaysAlone — 2 months ago

SBC 26 Fun?

While I am not Southern Baptist, there is a part of my introverted sexuality that sits back and enjoys watching the conference proceedings thinking that down in the heat and humidity of Orlando, there have to be some absolutely wild things happening behind closed doors amongst conference participants.

With that in mind, are there any SBC26 participants here who've been up to some fun / naughty shenanigans while you've been in Orlando? If so, I would love for you to share with everyone here. Surely, I can't be the only one edging to what fills my imagination thinking about the absolutely carnal happenings occurring between sessions back at the hotels.

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u/MrIsAlwaysAlone — 3 months ago