Do any of you use boner pills, and if so when did you start? How old are you? Would love to hear your experiences- it’s not that my husband is having trouble (yet? He’s 41) but he would love to be harder for even longer especially when he’s out with his cake. Thanks for chiming in.
Hi everyone, I have a question about my wife and I’d like to chat with someone and get opinions (especially from women) about whether she might be a cuckquean or interested in the topic. I’ll need to give a bit of context first. We’re a young married couple (3 years married), Christian and conservative. She’s 39 and doesn’t have as much libido as I do (34), mainly due to health issues like endometriosis, hypothyroidism, a lot of stress at home and work. Plus, we’re both in psychological therapy due to childhood trauma (explain more in dm). Our intimate moments are pretty rare (every 4 or 6 months), and honestly, it’s becoming harder to understand the situation.
However, something different happened this weekend. On Friday, we had sex just like always — she was trying and making an effort, almost without desire, and I was trying not to be too forceful and to be gentle. I thought I’d have to wait until next year. But today, after going to church, we had passionate sex. Here’s where I start to suspect something.
At church, a group of young people were doing a college tour, and I was serving at the altar. My wife noticed that many of the young girls were looking at me. After mass, when we went home to rest in bed, she started teasing me about it — saying things like “Did you see those girls? They were looking at you,” and “Watch out, you might go with one of them.” I teased her back, asking “Why not? Since you don’t want to be with me (in intimacy).” She playfully hit me, a bit jealous, and then we started kissing.
This time, she took the lead and had me kiss her on her breasts, and that’s when we made love again. She didn’t come, but I could tell she was very wet.
That’s the story — sorry it’s so long. What do you all think?
From a night out with his girl after a year long hiatus that neither of them wanted, but life happened as it does. Their pent up energy for one another, finally expressed last night. He was in the room first and said once she arrived it was immediately on with them. Making out, him pushing her against the wall and feeling her body. She wore a dress with nothing underneath which is her signature. She has a pussy that cums many many many times and it fully opened to him to do whatever he wanted to her. He told me how he would fuck her, touch her, kiss her pussy, on loop and then finally let her have a short break before going again. He teased her with his tip and made her squirt. From 8pm-10am he made her cum countless times, and he came 3 times. When he arrived home I greeted him naked in bed and I was starving for his touch. He looks so hot when he comes home from fucking her, it’s like his jawline sharpens and all I can think of is worshiping him. Thanking him for sharing his cock with her. I asked him to lay down next to me and relax. It’s part of the ritual of his return to clean his cock with my mouth, and as he was removing his underwear he let me know he had not showered and that her cum was all over him. He was moving slowly, saying he’s really sore and had barely slept. I didn’t care if he could even get hard for me I just wanted him to lie back and let me kiss him softly. It was only a matter of time before I was slobbering over him and bobbing with much enthusiasm since I knew he was transitioning his mindset back to being at home. I was going crazy wondering what he could be processing as I sucked his cock so lovingly. Is he asking how on earth he managed such a life? That he not only gets to fuck another woman but his wife waits in bed naked for him and begs him to let her suck his cock to welcome him back home? That she is even more turned on if he’s unable to harden for her, that if he says sorry I can’t get hard for you I gave it all away…that will actually make her even more enthusiastic. Or..is he playing through the night he’s just had and indulging in the freshest memories of enjoying his naughty little girl with the tightest pussy.
All of the sudden he tells me to keep going just like that, and oh boy I think that means he may give me some of his cum. I kept going more and more and more, being a cum hungry slut for him and just hoping I’m pleasing him while he can ignore me and relax. I feel his breathing shift and know it’s coming soon. I’ve got my mouth swirling his tip and my hand rotating and firmly sliding up and down his shaft. Sometimes I’m sucking sometimes I’m licking, he loves it when I’m sloppy on his cock. His hot tingling load squirts to the back of my mouth and I feel him generously pumping more than I thought he might have to offer me. I instinctively and greedily drink his cum and continue my rhythm to extend his pleasure. His breathing slows and he lays still on the bed while I still am slowing down my devoted posture.
He tells me I’m his best girl, and I know I am but he also tells me she’s his favorite girl to fuck. The way she cums on him no matter how he gives it to her. He gets to play with her like a toy that never runs out of batteries. She can’t get over his shape and has legitimately asked him to make a custom dildo made from his cock shape which we’re going to look into for her.
All of this makes me wonder if he would ever actually choose her over me or truly wish he was able to have her instead of me. I get insecure about it for sure and I’m currently jealous as I still lay here naked in bed waiting until he can fuck me with his perfect cock. I need him inside of me so bad, it still feels like she owns it after the night they just had. I need him to fill me, it’s all I can think about is getting his hard raging cock inside of me. But he gave it all to her like he said he would. He’s got her scratches on his body, which he loves to come home with and show off. He knows it drives me crazy when I can’t wrap my legs around him and be filled. Knowing she was the last one he fucked, besides my face I guess.
When he cums in my mouth all I want is for him to kiss me deeply afterward. It feels so intimate to feel the tingles from his cum while he’s kissing me. It makes me want to swallow him every time he cums.
Anyway I am literally just a horny mess over here in recovery mode after a long night of my husband being gone on a date with his favorite pussy to fuck. It’s not mine and I submit to his desires. He deserves anything he desires and he will continue to be centered and served by me, his slutty little wife who makes him cookies while he’s off sleeping with her.
My gf has been interested in having a girl watch us, but I’m not sure how to parlay that into doing it let alone having my gf watch me with another girl. Any advice?
DMs open might turn into her watching us play.
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Next Thursday, 7/2, he’s going to leave from work and go see her at the hotel he booked for their sleepover.
Their first reconnection in over a year and they’ve finally set a date.
My husband could not be more excited.
I say her name while playing with his cock and it stiffens up in a way it doesn’t when it’s just me. I love knowing how excited he gets to go play. Lately, I’ve really enjoyed asking him logistics questions while his hands are inside of me.
I asked what time he wants to come home the next morning. In the past, it was around 8 or 9, and he’d have coffee for me in hand when he got home. Last night he said he doesn’t want to leave until 10a. He wants to sleep in because he knows they’ll have a long night and he wants to rest.
I actually respect that, and it might mean he’s a little more rested before coming home and reconnecting with me.
I worry about the kids waking up and not giving us much time to ourselves that day, and he said we would be able to find privacy even if they wake up. They’re 11-16, and I think he’s right. It’s just been a while since we’ve done this and it’s easy for me to worry about potential problems.
In the past, it’s been hard for me to sleep when he’s with her, so the 8a/9a return has been welcomed since I’ve barely slept the night before. And I just want his freshly fucked body to return to me.
I love reclaiming him, sucking her off his cock that was in her until the moment they left, serving him however he tells me. Centering his pleasure makes me so hot.
So when he tells me he doesn’t want to leave until 10 while he’s also got his fingers inside of me and is making me squirm under his weight, I hear myself say “yes daddy” like his obedient slut because all I want to do is make him happy.
I told him I’m going to let the kids stay up as late as they want that night so they’ll sleep in later than usual while he’s out having “game night” with his “friends.”
Really he’ll be balls deep in her sweet tight pussy.
I’m worried I’ll get nerves about him sleeping with her again for the first time again. And I’m worried one of the kids will have a hard time and I’ll be on mom duty late and feel stretched, like he needs to come home early, but I won’t even be able to get ahold of him in a timely manner.
I see my brain projecting the fear, but I know it’s trying to protect me.
And I get worried I won’t have anyone to talk to because we don’t want to share this info with anyone in our regular life right now, or maybe ever again. I don’t know. Maybe I will only discuss our open marriage with other Redditors who are in the kink. No one else seems to really get it, and I don’t want to explain the dynamic when I’m just trying to move through emotions.
So I know I can come here to this sub and be whiny about it if I need to.
And this is what I’ve been wanting for him and for us. I’ve craved this back in our lives. Being involved in this sub and reading from others how this is truly a wife/gf-led kink is exactly it.
He never suggested this dynamic. He fell into it and has learned what his role is, which requires much restraint and care on his end. It’s not just a free-for-all. Meditation is necessary to help him move with intention.
He’s learned some harsh lessons by being the man who is maintaining two sexual relationships. Wife and girlfriend.
Now, she’s not really his girlfriend anymore. It’s not a fair title for what he can offer. They did try that on for a couple months last year, and when he walked away, he held so much guilt and remorse for such an abrupt ending that didn’t hold much space for her feelings.
I felt for her too, but he and I experienced such a rupture in communication while also facing severe mental health concerns for one of our kids that I just let it be messy for him. I even kind of reveled in his discomfort at that point.
This wasn’t kind of me, and I’ve been offered renewed perspective on that time by now.
But damn, he’s been very hesitant about reopening with her even though I had asked him to consider it. I had finally submitted to the fact that I also could not get her out of my mind, and I missed seeing what she brings to the energy field.
Finally, I accept. I relent.
This kink is not something I can outpace or remove from myself. I have to accept that I love my husband fucking around without me. It adds to our sex life and daily life in a way that is unmatched. It causes me to submit to him in the ways that make me feel so fulfilled after 20 years of being together.
Knowing another woman is going to pull fresh untapped energy out of him and we all can share in it. I don’t do that. Only she does.
I desire to hear him tell me his fantasies with her, the ways he’d love to see us both pleasuring him together. I would really love to submit to him alongside her, but he tells me he’d prefer to just be with her, and so that is how it is.
My desire is for him to control me, which means sometimes I say yes daddy to him when it’s not my first choice that he doesn’t leave the hotel room until 10a. That he gets to leave at his leisure with her. She doesn’t have to wake up alone and pack up after he’s left. It makes sense that he wants to be with her then.
And I’ll be like, but what about my coffee?
I know he’ll make it happen. I don’t need to worry.
And he’ll come home ready for me to reclaim him. Maybe he won’t even be able to get hard for me, but I will worship him anyway. And he’ll touch me and tell me what he enjoyed about his night with her.
He always comes home with stories that make me drip for him.
I drank his cum last night as he ignored me and thought of her. There are few pleasures greater than helping my man relax after a long day, and sucking his cock is something he really, really likes for both his girls to be doing for him.
She was the one who upped the bar for cock sucking because she drains him while drinking him fully. I thought I did a great job by deep throating him, but after her, I had to learn to start drinking his cum too, which I was honestly afraid of. But my competitive spirit and desire to make my man really happy encouraged me to push through.
Anything to submit to him and act in devotion to his pleasure is my goal, as I worship my husband and elevate his desires over mine.
Hi all, I’ve posted previously in cuckquean pages, but it might be easier to get straightforward advice or discussion points here instead.
My partner has started to be consumed by being a cuckquean, so much so she’s even asked me to “point out” reddit girls while she looks and tells me why “they’re better”.
I’m trying to understand and approach this both modestly and carefully, as 1). It’s her fantasy and kink 2). I have seen it be empowering for her, through her orgasms (I haven’t seen her achieve climax before the way she has lately with this kink).
She loves the degradation as well as the thought of a cake being younger, prettier than her etc.
How did you all approach this or handle the escalating emotions your partner has or had with this kink?
Any and all advice and comments are definitely welcome, just trying to understand as much as I can.
Hey everyone,
I’m looking to hear from who actively enjoy the "cuckquean" dynamic, specifically regarding the emotional and psychological journey of discovering this about yourself.
We often read about the logistics of this lifestyle, but I’m deeply curious about the internal shift, the exact moment how you felt started to change.
I'd love to hear your stories on a few specific things:
1.The "Aha!" Moment: When you first noticed your husband looking at an attractive woman in public, a character on TV, or an actress in an adult video, what actually switched inside you? How did your brain turn what is "supposed" to be jealousy into a direct spark of excitement?
3. The Bedroom Reality vs. Private Fantasies: For couples who use a screen(porn) in the bedroom to watch together during intimacy. what does that feel like in the moment when you tell him to desire other women openely. Beyond that, what are your favorite private fantasies when you're just daydreaming about this dynamic alone?
Most importantly, If you hit an emotional dip or a "hangover" after exploring these feelings, what did your partner do that made you feel completely safe, cherished, and anchored back to reality?
We are exploring these boundaries in an environment of total trust and security, and we would love to hear your personal timelines, feelings, and raw insights.
Thank you so much!
Just wanted to see what's your cake situation.