r/DesireExperience

Would it be acceptable to be walking around Pearl with a cockring on during the day or anytime?

I'm curious what are your thoughts about seeing people get busy in other parts of the resort. Are you bothered if people are doing it in the main or quiet pool, in the pool beds, the room balconies or the unisex bathrooms?

I'm a mtf trans. I was wondering if it is alright for me to visit? Thank you

My (36m) and my wife (37f) will be going Jan 2027 for our first time at any sort of lifestyle resort. From what I’ve read public sex is allowed at the hot tub beds and playroom.. but is toy use allowed or normal? We’re only planning on extremely soft swaps (think just hands if playing with others) but I love the idea of someone else using my wife’s vibrator on her or letting others watch her stroke me with a fleshlight.

Hello, we are booked for my birthday (32) at Pearl and accordingly would like to celebrate in my birthday suit. How is the nudist experience at Pearl? I know it’s clothing optional but will most everyone be naked as well? Or do people tend to stay in textiles?

How is beach at Pearl, any left by party side of pool?

We got suckered into doing the "ritual dinner". We would say do NOT do this dinner. The food is the exact same meats and food that they serve at the resort buffet. Really bad. Lobster tail was more tough than rubber (not joking). Then the "show" with "strippers" are just their normal nightly staff and it is NOT a stripper show. There was zero nudity and the girls only took a bikini top off but they had large pasties on so zero nudity. They wanted to constantly get the audience to become the show and it was super awkward and not erotic or sexy at all. My wife had to tell the entertainers NO three times before they would listen. I guess no doesn't mean no to them. The entire thing was so awkward and not sexy that we left early along with at least two other couples. We had researched before buying and read the description many times but was not what was advertised.

We are still just completely shocked at how bad and frankly corny the entire thing was. We heard afterwards that the resort will offer this free to long time guests when they don't have enough other couples to try and get their numbers up and that makes sense now because they want the guests to become the show.

We talked with the manager about the experience and they really didn't care and did not offer and refund or compensation. No Bueno!