r/HotwifeSupportGroup

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What’s your fantasy?

Wife here we would like to share with everyone one of our fantasies. My personal fantasy is getting to the point that I can take his load with his cock down my throat. Hubby says his fantasy is to be milked.
Tell us one of yours?

u/Neohmidlifecouple — 7 days ago

32 Hotwife Need help Navigating

Hi everyone,
My wife and I have been in the Hotwife/lifestyle for almost 3 years now. We’re a happily married couple of 7 years with 4 young kids (ages 3-12), a home in New Hampshire, and we both work in healthcare (she in mental health, me in home health) while running a small eBay business on the side. We’re looking specifically for an experienced Hotwife female who’s been in the lifestyle for a while to connect with my wife for advice, perspective, and conversation.
We started somewhat casually but things are evolving. We both prioritize our marriage and family first — that foundation is non-negotiable. My wife comes from a religious/adopted family background with strong values, and she needs a real emotional connection and chemistry for this to work. We’re moving toward something ongoing with a compatible guy who understands and respects that dynamic (safety, discretion, and our family life always come first). I fully support her in this and love seeing her fulfilled, but I also need the reassurance that we’re solid as husband and wife at the core.
We prefer the “Hotwife” terminology and dynamic over cuckold. We both have a strong breeding kink (she has the arm implant). Sexually, we’re exploring MFM play, reclaiming, and scenarios where I stay involved (e.g., 369 positions, me going down on her soon after she’s been with her lover, etc.). I’m straight, not bi. We’re looking for a confident, alpha-type bull who’s physically bigger/stronger than me and can take her to new levels while respecting our boundaries and our marriage.
We’ve learned a lot through trial and error (including some jealousy hurdles with past partners who didn’t fully get the lifestyle), and we’re actively working on clear lines and rituals that serve us both. My wife especially would benefit from talking to a woman who has real experience navigating the emotional side — the connection, the intensity, the balance with family life, setting boundaries, etc.
If you’re an experienced Hotwife who’s been there and can offer thoughtful guidance, my wife would really appreciate a low-pressure chat. We’re genuine, stable, and respectful people — no drama, just real folks trying to do this in a healthy way.
We’re happy to verify and exchange some basic info once we connect. Thanks for reading, and feel free to comment or DM if this resonates.

u/Asleep-Assistance123 — 7 days ago

Husband wants hotwife experience but wife only wants her old FWB – feeling conflicted

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My wife (30s) and I have been talking about her sleeping with other guys. I've been into the idea for years, but she's only recently started warming up to

it. She has been making me fantasies for years but now she seems down to actually flirt with the guy and see where it goes.

The problem is: the only guy she's actually interested in is a guy she used to regularly fuck in high school — he took her virginity and they had a long FWB thing. She's put him as her clear #1 choice multiple times, even though I've told her I'm especially turned on by bigger dick size (im 6 inches and thick and she says she thinks hes 6 inches as well since it's been so long)

There's another guy (coworker from years ago) who she said has a big dick, but she keeps ranking him #2 because she says the ex-FWB is cuter and has a better personality.

Part of me is really turned on by the fantasy (Ive been asking her to fuck another dude and record it for so long), but another part feels really weird about it being this specific guy because of their history. I keep getting anxious thinking about her going back to someone she has that much past with.

Am I overthinking this? Should I just let her go for it with him since he's the only one she's actually down for? Or is it valid to want her to pick someone with no history instead? I'm also concerned if I shoot this one down she wont make an effort for anyone else.

Any advice is appreciated

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u/PlanComprehensive832 — 11 days ago