r/HusbandsInChastity

My wife and I are experimenting with chastity. There are many options out there. What cages would you recommend? I also have seen the flat cages. They confuse me. It seams to me that the shaft would be pushed out of the ring and the cage would simply fall off. What am I missing?

Currently long term chastity does not seam to be reasonable due to injury. I expect discomfort but injury is a no go. What are the things to consider to make long term a reality for my wife?

Part 5 here-

https://www.reddit.com/r/cuckoldstories2/s/AjC0fMhrcq

At the bar

You and your wife finished a nice easy dinner but nothing fancy at a little place near your house. You panicked as she did not want to run into anybody that you knew. Your wife was dressed very sexually. Since you saw her get dressed you knew she was san underwear or bra. It was just a sexy nice fitting dress that showed all the curves. You couldn’t notice but in just the right light you could just barely make out her nipples.
You’re in luck tonight as it was one of the rare nights they had some entertainment there. They also had a very small dance floor.
After both finished your first beverages, your wife said let’s dance. You got up, grabbed her hand and took her oot on the floor. The first song was kind of a slow number and you reached in for the embrace and the hug. Then you firmly pressed your hand on her ass. Dancing closely and skillfully brushing at the back of her dress exposing her bare ass at times. You made sure the bartender got an eyeful. He made eye contact and nodded his head in approval also with a smile.
She whispered in your ear thank you for the direction you’re taking. I love you so much. You said that your pleasure is my first priority. She told you that was so sweet and she reached town and fondled your cage through your slacks. You then then reached up and circled a nipple through the very thin fabric. She said that feels good and don’t you wish you could have more of it. The dance didn’t last much longer then both of you sat down and she then told you to take out your phone then hand it to her. She took a quick selfie after she massaged her nipples so they would be at attention. Then she said there you have a record of what I wore tonight and then I’ll let you briefly fondle me for the memory.
Then she said I want you to text that to my boyfriend and ask if it’s OK for you to rub my nipples? Then based on his reaction, you may need to apologize.
It was later in the evening. I was just sitting watching TV wife in the other room as usual. I received a text. I thought this is odd. It’s kind of late. I opened it up and got a big smile when I saw the picture and licked my lips. I heard from the other room the wife say who is texting this late I just told her it was a friend of mine and she let it go . Next text I got was you asking permission to touch your wife’s nipples. I quickly replied no she’s exclusive to me. The only way that changes is if your wife, you and me are all in agreement than that could change.
You saw the text and you looked down at the table. Your wife asked you what the matter was? Looking up you replied he didn’t like what I did. She then said well you know what to do. You then texted me thinking about your words carefully. He did not want to be in a weaker position and give me the upper hand. You knew that she was exclusive to me however, you and I were on an equal level and get along fine and you didn’t want to screw that up. You started the text with we got dinner, went to a local bar got a drink, danced for a minute and you couldn’t help yourself. You fondled her tits and exposed her bare ass on the dance floor. You also stated she had the cage key around her neck, displaying it probably and you think the bartender noticed it. The whole time you have been married when your wife dresses sexually you knew you were gonna go home and reap the benefits. In this case, you knew it wasn’t gonna work happen. He also said she put your key around her neck before you left so you’d be a good man. Then you apologized and hit send. Your wife asked what you texted? You said that’s between you and me.
When I got the text, I looked at it decided it was genuine. I replied don’t go there again. Having your cage on saved your ass tonight.
At that point you guys left and went home with you feeling dejected after your brief chewing out.
Reaching home, both of you get ready for bed and crawled in together. Your wife leaned over gave you a kiss. She said thank you for the nice evening and I enjoyed it. Then she reached out, petted your cage and said, you did well by apologizing. That started to make the steam come out of your ears, but then you remembered this is what she wanted. And you agreed to it. You asked about the cage and she said leave it on. Let’s see if you can handle it all night. You just groaned knowing it was going to be a long and uncomfortable night. Your wife just let it go not responding.

Looking for something romantic that I can text to my wife to show her my appreciation for keeping me locked. Any suggestions? Need something new. Thanks