Newbie advice (read below)
Hello all.
Some very nice posts. Great ideas as a newbie.
A little intro:
38 married over 12 years
Have a fun and kinky sex life with the wife. We have our likes, fetishes, etc.
We have only played between us even though both our fantasies are centred around my wife playing with others. For her to fuck other guys with me watching.
Joining in. Or waiting to reclaim her after. More as a stag / hotwife setup. No cuckold play. No humiliation as such. Just not our thing.
But that's all in fantasy play and roleplay with toys. It makes for amazing sex dirty talking the many scenarios we have in mind.
For the last few years we have experimented with cock rings. She loves it when I wear. Especially if she requests I wear it either all day or specifically when we go out on our date nights. She loves to tease. To feel it over my clothes when we are out. Our naughty fun secret. It's a 50mm cock ring that goes over my cock and balls. As it's made of silicone, I'm able to stretch it over it all and just about get it on. It's a good fit once it's on. Tight enough to feel it there but not massively restraining.
A few nights ago during our play, I brought up the idea of me wearing a cock cage. To lock my cock, give her the key as we go out for dinner / date night.
She loved the idea. She moaned far more than usual during play and orgasmed to the thought of her teasing and making me hard while we are out and I'm locked.
So.....I'm now researching sizes and types.
Found a few options. They are all quite similar. I'm not sure on sizing.
Flaccid my cock measures as 120mm in length from base to tip. Thickness of my cock is 40mm. And cock head is about 45mm.
At hard I'm about 190mm in length. Not measured thickness but it's quite thick.
Now I'd like the cock cage to be snug and be a nice fit. But as we are not into SPH or teasing about size, I won't be looking at small nub sized cages as it's not what we'd be into.
I've found some online. They are a tad smaller than my flaccid size. It's going to be a bit of trial and error, and I am prepared for that. Just looking at info from others who are more experienced in wearing.
Would they still be ok? I'm sure I'd get into them even if it's a tight squeeze. My balls may suffer as the rings are solid rather than the cock rings I've worn before that are stretchy silicone.
Your input is appreciated. DM's also open if anyone prefers that.