It’s totally consensual. I want you to hear my fucked up issues and if you want to, bully me for them and make me feel like shit… any message you send me can be super harsh from the start if you want!
i no longer do this, but i used to self harm, and the thought of someone doing it for me just turns me on so much sometimes.. don't know if i'll ever experience that though
I posted here before and I really like this subreddit! It’s small but gains a lot of traction, so I just wanted to post here again for some thoughts and maybe a little bit of an opinion.
I would say I’m into almost everything, and I don’t have a limit at all, from my previous post you can see what I’m into but other than that, I’m actually very open to almost everything. But that’s beside the point. I feel really embarrassed, a bit guilty, and sorta ashamed at this kink I’ve been interested for a long time now. I’m really into misogyny and the acts within it. And as a woman, I shouldn’t. I shouldn’t like the idea of thinking men are superior to women. But I love the idea of a man who knows he owns me and knows he’s superior compared to me while he has his boot pressing my head down against the ground with all his pressure to make it known I’m his while he bullies and degrades me for being the gender I’m cursed with. Pushing these sexist ideologies and beliefs onto me, knowing I can’t do anything about it.
But I feel so ashamed and JUST WEIRD for liking this. I would like some opinions or maybe some reassurance, I don’t know. 💔 I’m even embarrassed just to post this…
The two main ones for actual support are all inactive and requires permission to post.
Working through things but would love to have like minded people to talk to.
I know that masochism isn't the same but it's adjacent enough that some people here may know. I'm sorry for not being 100% on topic but like I mentioned, I'm not sure where to ask because the two main subs are closed.
I (20F) recently accepted I have masochistic tendencies. For years I believed I was just inclined to submission but it goes beyond that, the thing is, I’m a virgin.
I have no way to really try and explore this side of myself because I have no partner, and I’m also a very shy and reserved person regarding sexuality so casual encounters in person make me anxious. This doesn’t mean I don’t want to have sex.
I wasn’t raised religious or necessarily with the idea that sex was wrong, but I do have some ideas of where this comes from.
But I feel really frustrated.
I like being in uncomfortable situations, I do enjoy pain to some extend. As much as I’ve been able to try on myself, I’ve enjoyed it, but I still feel like it’s not enough.
At first I even thought I hated degradation, until I listened to audios while masturbating and something clicked.
I don’t even think the stuff I’m into is extreme either, just rougher than expected for the way I present which is why I feel strange talking about it.
Does anyone else have a similar experience? How did you get into masochism by yourself? how do you stop feeling guilty over pleasuring yourself through something that’s supposed to be “wrong”?
Please DM me if you’d like talking further 🫶