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40/37 [MF4M/F/FM] #NYC - FWB Couple looking for a 3rd/couple for her first time

We’re a super kinky fwb couple who met through Reddit and now planning a MFM/MMF threesome. We met through RAOMD earlier this year. This is her first time and she’s looking for a chill and fun 3rd or group to play with. When we find the best guy/group/girl for her we will host a fuck party in Brooklyn.

We want to hear from you and hope you reach out. If you’re interested then please send us a DM. We will ignore low effort and low energy responses however so don’t waste your time if you’re not going to put in some effort. Please add your stats, location, availability, pics and your interests/kinks.

PLEASE READ THIS:
We’re not interested in submission play or anything related to hotwife lifestyle so please no bulls or cucks or weird energy (neediness is not sexy).

Don’t be lame, we will probably get 100s of messages and will try to respond to all quality messages. Safety first so STI results will be requested and ours will be shared.

M - 40y, 6’3ft, 7bwc, Beefy/Muscular, Dom, Bi Top
F - 37y, 5’6, BBW, light skin Latina, multi orgasmic

We will ask to verify and FaceTime each other before meeting up.

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u/Weimaranerlover — 2 days ago
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34 [F4M] #NYC - Married Hotwife seeking a confident bull

I’m a 34-year-old married woman in NYC looking for a consistent bull between 24 and 29 who enjoys chemistry, confidence, and knows exactly who he is.

I’ve been in the kink community for years and already have submissives in my life, so I’m not looking for another one. I’m looking for someone who naturally steps into a different energy. Confident, grounded, playful, emotionally mature, and secure enough to appreciate a woman who knows what she wants.

The older I get, the more younger men seem drawn to me, and I can’t say I’m complaining. I love the mix of confidence, curiosity, ambition, and stamina that often comes with it. While the physical attraction is important, I’m really after someone I genuinely click with. Great conversation, mutual respect, laughter, and incredible chemistry go a long way for me.

You are:

\- Not corny

\- Responsible and hygienic.

\- Attractive with a handsome face. That’s absolutely my weakness.

\- Confident without being arrogant.

\- Independent and emotionally mature.

\- Comfortable in your masculinity.

\- Ambitious and building a life you’re proud of.

\- Into curvy, soft, brown women.

\- Comfortable around strong, intelligent women and genuinely attracted to that energy.

About me:

I’m Puerto Rican, 5’3”, 160 lb, curvy, soft in all the right places, with brown silver highlights, brown eyes, and a warm complexion. I have a career I genuinely enjoy, a high sex drive, a quick sense of humor, and a personality that’s equal parts nurturing, mischievous, and direct. I test frequently and I’m on PrEP.

I’m in an ethically non-monogamous marriage and seriously dating another person. My husband knows about and supports my dating life. I’m looking for one consistent connection with someone who values communication, discretion, and mutual respect.

If you message me, include a photo and tell me something about yourself. Effort is attractive. One-word messages usually aren’t.

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u/hermitudes — 2 days ago
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22[t4m] #nassau . Fem sub lonely . I’m kind , clean and into a guy that’s the same ☺️ please and thank you . Oh I’m in Long Island lol

hiiii

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u/kindness2001 — 4 days ago
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23/41 [MM4M] #NYC - Super cute bi Asian Twink and white for new bi Pal

We are 2 100% STD free, in shape bi-curious guys looking to play with a 3rd in shape guy. You could be hung or avg size, white or asian, 100% STD free and cut.

My Asian friend is adorable, smooth, cut naturally curious and submissive. We're excited to add to the fun.

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u/ManufacturerTop9844 — 4 days ago
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33 [F4M] #NYC - Goth slut needs a huge cock.

Hey I’m 33, honry asf! Need huge cocks to stretch me and treat me like a princess. I love lingerie and fun nights.

Into: bbc, bwc, anal, face fucking, I’m also a sub and enjoy being treated like the slut I am.

🖤🖤🖤

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u/kitty_kittyy008 — 7 days ago
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23 [M4M] #Westchester - Any bros wanna get milked?

Looking to get face fucked and eat some ass 👅 Open to older/younger! Can’t host so please be cool with car fun or public play.

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u/matebates — 5 days ago
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40 [M4F] #NYC - looking for a submissive Asian girl

I’m looking for a submissive Asian girl, preferably petite, who would be interested in hooking up and cosplaying for me as an Asian school girl.

Please be real, local (NYC / NNJ) willing to meet up irl, and able to verify. No cat fish please, I don’t need time wasters.

There are more pics of me in my post history

If interested please text me saying “I’m Asian”

u/NYCNNJ_Dom88 — 6 days ago
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33 [F4M] #NYC petite goth looking for huge cock

Hey 🖤 I’m petite, goth/alt, and feeling very needy tonight. I love lingerie, teasing, and being treated like a princess before being completely ruined.

I’m submissive, playful, and very into confident partners who know how to take control while still being respectful and safe. Big plus if you’re huge, dominant, and enjoys a slut.

Into: rough play, oral, anal, face use, lingerie, praise/degradation, bud, bwc, bbc.

Please be clean, respectful, 30+, and send a real intro with your age, location, and what you’re into. No low-effort messages.

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u/kitty_kittyy008 — 9 days ago
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40 [M4A] #NYC single curious eastern European guy looking for fun and pleasure.

I'm 40 y.o. 6'1. 151lbs. Around 8 inches cut and thick. Prefer older partners, smooth and fit body but open to all types. Can't host. Anybody real here? HMU.

u/Adventurous-Use654 — 9 days ago
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34 [MF4M] #NYC - hotwife for FWB

We're not in the city (south jersey, outside philly) but wife goes regularly for work and I'm looking for a FWB for her work trips. We're new to hotwife stuff but she's game. 34, white, brunette, cute, fit. Looking for someone bull-ish she can connect with while she's there. Not looking for the full boyfriend experience, maybe small "dates" but mostly just casual fun after the comfort level is there. Experience with couples is great but not necessary. Tell me about yourself in your intro or you'll likely be ignored.

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u/Repulsive_Quality335 — 10 days ago
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Hey all! First, heres (some of, sfw-ish) me: https://imgur.com/a/m-8NrMNxM

I can't tell if the dating apps are worse than ever, but after the last few folks i've seen i'm taking a break to just focus on work and hobbies; i'm super busy in the era of 9/9/6 anyways, for better or worse, but from time to time i'd love to have someone chill to chat with, check out new restaurants, and, assuming there's mutual attraction, have fun. I guess this is just a proxy to a dating app with more clear intentions. I feel like there must be women out there who are kind of in a similar spot?

Me: East asian, 5'8, pretty active at the gym and with active hobbies in my free time, youthful, probably average-ish looks, a bit edgier and snarkier than first apperances might suggest. I'm easy-going but pretty career focused and ambitious, and just as happy to sit around bantering and being unserious as i am to talk about philosophy, politics (i'm quite left, to the extent that matters), or life. Kind of a gets-into-rabbitholes kind of person whether it be more academic things like history and science as more totally useless things like interior decoration and tiny homes or cold cases and mysteries. I like to travel when i can and last year went to Europe and Asia, without being too specific.

I'd love to show by not tell but, uh, you know, this isn't a dating app with prompts so that's a bit weird, so ill say that generally i think most people who know me would say i'm quite witty and fun to chat to about mostly anything.

It's generic i guess, but I also do love me some checking out new restaurants in the city and just generally exploring the city, but as i hit my 30's and a lot of friends move out of the city or are getting married, and I on the other hand am presently single and ass deep in work, don't get to do as much of that as i'd like. And while it's fun to go out to bars and on dates, sometimes i kind of miss the more relationship type "let's just hang out and grind TV and eat snacks".

So that's a bit about me, and what i'm looking for. Obviously posting here so the hope is there's mutual physical attraction and potentially meeting up, but i'd want to chat a bit first. Clean, DDF, etc etc., and expect the same. I'm relatively on the dominant side, like rough sex, and am open to kinks and trying new stuff, but, as cheesy as it is to say, i'm kind of past the totally random hook up phase in my life and prefer more regular partners that i actually have like, some chemistry with.
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You: If you read all that, cheers - ideally you're in your 20's or 30's, have some passions/interests in life, shorter than me lol, and in decent shape. Otherwise, mostly we'd have to see if we have good vibes and i get along with a wide variety of people, so it comes down a lot to if we hit it off. If you're quite shy or introverted that would not be a good fit.

If you're interested, chat me and ideally tell me a little bit about you, and if this post is still up, i'm still looking - have a good weekend all!

u/xVqXhfcAtEP — 9 days ago
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32 [F4A] #Queens - petite goth looking for a huge cock to ruin me.

Hey I'm petite, goth/alt, and feeling very needy
tonight.

I love lingerie, teasing, and being treated like a princess before being completely ruined.

I'm submissive, playful, and very into confident partners who know how to take control while still being respectful and safe.

Big plus if you're huge, dominant, and enjoy a girl who likes being told what to do.

Into: rough play, oral, anal, face use, lingerie, praise/ degradation, weed, bwc, bbc and porn.

Please be clean, respectful, 30+, and send a real intro with your age, location, and what you're into.
No low-effort messages.
🖤🖤🖤

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u/kitty_kittyy008 — 12 days ago
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28/30/33 [FFM4A] New York City #Brooklyn - Seeking single guys and couples throughout New York. If you're not in NYC, you must be willing to travel. Verification is mandatory for everyone.

You must be willing to send pictures and travel if you aren't local

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u/Pretty_Sign4241 — 14 days ago
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I’m experienced with CNC / BDSM, and am located in the NYC / NNJ area

I’m looking for local women interested in arranging a hook up that involves CNC

We can negotiate limits and boundaries beforehand and exchange safety procedures for meeting up.

There are a few more pics of me in my profile. I always verify with anyone I’m speaking with before meet ups too, so no cat fish attempts please. Thank you.

If you message me please start with “I want CNC” so I know it’s from here.

u/NYCNNJ_Dom88 — 12 days ago
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40/37 [MF4M] #NYC - FWBs looking for a 3rd for her first time

We’re a super kinky fwb couple who met through Reddit and now planning a MFM/MMF threesome. This is her first time and she’s looking for chill and fun group play. Not interested in bulls or cucks. When we find the best guy for this we will host a fuck party in Brooklyn. Please don’t be lame, STI results will be requested and shared. Please send us a message if interested.

We met through r/RAOMD

https://www.reddit.com/r/RandomActsOfMuffDive/s/bAabiEDyid

M - 40y, 6’3ft, 7bwc, Beefy/Muscular, Dom, Bi Top
F - 37y, 5’6, BBW, light skin Latina, multi orgasmic

We will ask to verify and FaceTime each other.

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u/Weimaranerlover — 13 days ago
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40 [M4F] #NYC - looking to date this summer

Picture of me:

https://ibb.co/KzGj6BMW

I live in Staten Island but am able to drive to other boroughs

Single and looking to date this summer.

Little bit about me, I’m a bit nerdy, I like video games, anime, fantasy movie and novels, I’m more of an introvert and I have a cat that I really love. I live alone in a private home that I own. I work full time and have a career and a stable routine, I’m off on weekends.

I’m looking for a woman who is more traditional minded when it comes to relationships, is submissive sexually, a little kinky is good, and isn’t taking to like 50 guys at once and makes me chase for attention (I’ll just move on).

Hit me up if you’re interested

u/NYCNNJ_Dom88 — 14 days ago
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32 [FTM4A] #NYC - medical/lab role play

Looking for someone who is interested in role play that looks something like this - my body is different so I’m here for medical purposes in your office to be examined or maybe in your lab to be studied. You poke and prod me, examine me and take note on and comment on my differences (ie related to being transmasc). You examine my holes and end up taking advantage of them and fucking me “for science”. Would be so fun to incorporate any ideas you have and down to get depraved and gross.

DM me if interested with a detailed idea of how you’d want to examine and take advantage of me!

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u/4agoodt1me — 12 days ago
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27 [mf4m] #Brooklyn - Hot wife needs to get fucked, slutted and used - public exhibition play

So we have a huge public fetish and love going to a nice known secret spot in Brooklyn for public play. Yes public nudity. So before you dm us make sure that is something you're comfortable with. We will ask you to be naked maybe not all the way but at least your dick. Its like a fetish where there a random dick and wife gets it put in her.

If you're also a freak like us and interested in this then dm us. Age, height, weight, race, size in the first message.

If you're not free to do this or not even in the state then please don't waste our time. Or yours.

Yes we did post before but we deleted our profile and made a new one. Too many weirdos and stalkers. Also some mods are bullies and cant accept when we reject them.

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u/HotCoupleSecret5 — 12 days ago