I know you’re confused about talking about trans people
Hi,
Before you talk about / refer to trans people, just think about this post. The linked sub is satirical so keep that in your mind.
I made a post a few days ago and (well not really surprised) but was more-so disappointed at how people referred to trans people. You aren’t fucking “a trans” or “transwoman,” you are fucking “a trans person/woman/man.” Like you wouldn’t say “hey look at that black walking down the street” or “wow look at that blackman.” Same way you shouldn’t say “wow look at that trans” or “wow that transwoman is a bombshell.” Like ask yourself have you ever ONCE typed out “jewishman” or “asianwoman.”
Like reducing people to a single adjective or equally worse combining the adjective with the word “person,” “man,” or “woman” is so so weird… and immediately turns me off.
And sure plenty of trans porn online markets itself with this terminology or even more outrageous slurs like “tr@nny” or “sh3mal3.” For cisgender porn producers this is simply inexcusable but at least for trans individuals producing content they can reclaim whatever terms they want to (but mostly they need to use these words to appear on the algorithm 😔). Like my friends and I call each other slurs for funsies but we would never actually call someone “a tr@nny” with a straight face.
Lastly calling me a fag during sex or in my dms is beyond strange… like if you’re railing a cis woman, would you ever call her a fag? Sure maybe a “whore” or “slut” if shes into being degraded but if you called her a “fag” she’d just be confused.
Just idk be a normal human being about the situation? Maybe go make some IRL transgender friends too?
/rant over