r/SanDiegoHotWives

Young Latino couple here looking to host today either single male or single female but if your a couple that’s a plus

Looking for today after 5:30
Must be clean

My girlfriend (5'7", submissive, eager) wants a strong, confident dominant man who will toss her around, pin her down, and fuck her hard.

Her biggest kink is watching me submit to him. The more she sees me have to obey, serve, get dominated or humiliated in front of her, the wetter and more submissive she becomes for the new guy.

We’re looking for a man who gets off on:

• Fully taking control of a couple the way she craves (her body + putting me in my place while she watches or you make her help.)

• Having the boyfriend actively serve and assist while she gets more turned on by my submission

• Rough, intense play with a willing submissive woman whose arousal spikes from seeing her boyfriend dominated

• At least 30, close to 6' or taller, fit, handsome

• Clear face pics required (we exchange once you send). And we’ve heard all the excuses, so please don’t patronize us.

• Playful, flirty energy mixed with genuine dominance, one message a day isn’t for us.

Daytime availability is a big plus. We’re serious about finding the right connection for regular/ongoing play if the chemistry is there.

If you can send a real face pic, hold a conversation, and actually enjoy the idea of owning both of us the way she wants, message us. Low-effort “hey” or dick-pic-only messages get ignored.

Sevilla was a hit — 2 min walk, sangria and tapas, live music, then danced downstairs when the club opened. Mixed crowd, good energy. I stepped away to grab a drink and let her dance on her own for a bit — guys started circling in without her even noticing. Pointed it out to her after. She was glowing by the time we got back to the room.
Rooftop was closed Saturday, so we ended up at 5th & Rose instead — better than the photos suggested, social enough to actually talk. As we got closer to doing the full bar game though, I could feel her anxiety climbing — she was doing it for me, not because she wanted to. So I called an audible. Reminded her it’s about us having fun, not checking a box.
Pulled out some truth-or-dare prompts I’d put together (confidence, flirting, bringing it back to us) — broke the ice without pressure. It morphed into F/M/K around the bar, then guessing games (swinger? sexless marriage? BDSM? throuple?). She was having a blast and it clearly got her head in the right place.
A guy ended up sitting next to us, turned out to be in the lifestyle — respectful the whole night, checked in with me before getting close to her, took us to a whiskey bar. She got properly flirted with by both of us at once, which is honestly a fantasy of mine.
Back at the room she was glowing, said having me right there made her feel safe enough to actually enjoy it. It got incredibly dirty and naughty after that. Still processing and talking through it today — she’s got a lot of new questions about the lifestyle now.
She’s still got two brand new dresses she never got to wear this trip — already thinking about the next adventure to put them to use. Any suggestions?