Hello! I am making my first trip to Secrets soon and would love any tips, advice, or things you wish you had known before your visit. Whether it is about navigating the resort, or anything that would just make the trip smoother overall, I want to be as prepared as possible. Thank you!
Looking To Have A Good Time For The Fourth. Who Wants To Play?
Like it says, visiting from 6-8 July. Wondering who else will be there and looking forward to see what the resort has to offer.
Swinging through 7/5 to celebrate our anniversary. We will be in a cabana. Feel free to swing by and grab a drink!
My wife and I have been together for 25+ years, and she is only the fifth and last woman I’ve been with. We’re interested in exploring the lifestyle, but we want to be respectful, realistic, and honest before stepping into anything new.
I’m average-sized, so that’s not really the concern. The bigger thing is that I tend to have trouble lasting more than a couple of minutes, even during regular sex with my wife. Obviously, being in a new environment or around new people may add even more nerves and excitement.
For couples, women, and men who have experience in the lifestyle: how big of a deal is this really? Is it something most people are understanding about if the couple communicates well, or is it something we should work on before attending events/resorts?
We’re not looking for judgment or anything explicit — just honest advice on expectations, confidence, etiquette, and how to make sure everyone involved still has a comfortable and enjoyable experience.