r/SexPositiveBerlin
Shoes for club
Hi!
I live in Niedersachsen, and I'm going to Berlin tomorrow. I have my outfit ish sketched out, but I forgor a crucial piece. Shoes. All I have is trainers and a red pair of Vans. I have a full day tomorrow, so I won't be in Berlin before 21 ish, and I don't know what to do. I wouldn't let me in in white trainers if I was a bouncer, and they certainly won't either.
Is there somewhere I can go near Mitte to get shoes that late, so I can get in to clubs?
Custom kink wear
Heya,
Looking for some custom kink wear - looking for a corset and possibly some custom Domme playwear in Berlin. Realise these would likely be different businesses 😅
FLINTA preferred but open - must be comfortable with big bodies. Would love a local business.
Must be custom! Yes, it’s an investment, this is intentional.
Thank yoooouuuu.
Nectar Spectra Labs - review and 4-MMC results
Nectar Spectra is a new testing lab replacing Kykeon:
https://www.nectarspectralabs.com/
I tested their Full Identification and Purity service for €85.
After ordering, I received a sample ID, prepared and double-bagged the sample, labeled it clearly, and mailed it to Spain.
Shipping from Germany took about two weeks, and I received the results one week after arrival. Everything went smoothly and felt professional.
Sample
Obtained in Berlin in early March.
Results
4-MMC HCl: 93.4%
Methylamine HCl: 0.7%
Unidentified impurities
Overall, I’m very happy with the service. Given that many other substances are currently being sold as 4-MMC in Berlin, I was relieved that the sample was confirmed as 4-MMC and was reasonably pure.
SX Festival & Expo June 26-28th
I’d like to invite you to the upcoming SX Festival and Expo June 26-28 in Berlin!
“MODERN SEX CULTURE. THE NEW ERA OF MODERN ADULT ENTERTAINMENT. GLOBAL EXPO BRANDS. ELITE CREATORS. KINK & FETISH VISIONARIES. BUILT ON LUST. POWERED BY REBELLION.”
Enjoy panel talks, performances, immersive experiences, and parties. Meet creators, educators, sexologists and the kink community.
I (one of the moderators or r/SexPositiveBerlin) have been invited as an ambassador and they gave me a 15% off ticket code for our subreddit users!
Use code “DANCES15” for 15% off tickets. See you there!
Ticket link: https://www.eventbrite.ie/e/sx-festival-expo-2026-berlin-b2b-only-tickets-1461155267739
Festival website: https://sxtech.eu/
MILK & HONEY - Prague goes UNLEASHED (Fri, May 22)
Milk & Honey, the iconic club known for sixteen wild years in Prague, is coming back to Berlin, this time together with UNLEASHED. You can expect everything people love about Milk & Honey, plus that raw UNLEASHED energy on top. Awareness team on site. Refreshment stations, candy, basic cosmetics, and safer-sex supplies provided.
▣ MAIN
- 22.00-06.00 All-nighter of SJ yellow & Miklei
▣ DUNGEON
- 23:00–01:30 Miss Unleashed
- 01:30–04:00 LIVVY
▣▣▣ Tickets ▣▣▣
- Tickets available on Rausgegangen
- Tickets available on Resident Advisor
- At the door:
- Regular ticket: 33€
▣▣▣ FAQ ▣▣▣
What is the dress code?
>Black Glamour · Kinky · Fetish · Naked.
What are the chances to get in as a single guy?
>No presale tickets for single men. Very limited availability at the door. This policy follows from Prague as Milk & Honey normally don't allow any single guys.
If you’ve got questions or feel unsure about something, just send us a message or comment below. We’re here to help and to make your night truly WILD.
Pinky Promise Sat 23
Hello. I have seen that there is only late entry tickets (after 23:30) for Pinky Promise. I would really like to attend for workshops. Do you guys know is it better to buy one on the door or they will let me ine with this later entry, earlier. There is no early entry ticket on RA so I am a bit confused.
Is gay cruising in Volkspark Friedrichshain dead?
I’m a bit sad… used to be so fun there. Seems that cruisers have moved to another smaller place in the park. Are people still active there? The bushes are way to short now
❓ Weekly No Stupid Questions Thread ❓
New to the scene? Curious about kink? Unsure if your question follows the rules? Ask here!
This thread is a judgment-free space for all questions about sex positivity, the Berlin scene, kink, and event specifics. Your curiosity helps everyone in the community.
What to Ask: Inquire about anything related to sex-positivity or kink, If you're on the fence about posting it elsewhere, this is the place.
Be Respectful: All answers and questions must be empathetic and non-judgmental. This is a space for learning and supportive communication.
Keep it Relevant: Focus questions on the Berlin sex-positive/kink scene or broader sex-positive topics.
Important rules still apply, no spam, abuse, hate, promotion, explicit content or general assholery
Thoughts on RSO?
How would you rate it as a sex positive club? At least I've read there is a dark room or a play area kind of space downstairs, but how is the vibe otherwise? Will be in Berlin next month with my partner (straight couple), and our plan is to hit some day time parties / open airs in the afternoon on Sunday and then head somewhere for the night. Attempting Berghain is tempting, but only if the queue isn't too bad, so RSO would be our plan B in that case. Also it's the Glitch weekend at RSO - how would that affect the overall experience? We're definitely music first, other fun second if it makes any difference :)
Filming Crew at Carneball Bizarre KitKat 16.05.2026
We went to Carneball Bizarre at KitKat last Saturday and we really enjoyed it. No single men disturbed me and my girlfriend. We spent 8 hours at the club and wished we arrived earlier to spend more time there. We found no queue at 2am, the bouncers were friendly, the people were also friendly. We spoke to a some people and everyone was welcoming. It made our trip to Berlin one to remember.
We come from a small place and we prioritize privacy a lot. However, we were really bothered to learn that professional camera crew were filming inside the club. Privacy really matters to us, and we were shocked to have 4 camera crew filming us going down the stairs at some point. There were no signs or anyone giving us a heads up.
Does anyone know what this is all about? What was being filmed?
Weekly r4r Post
This is the weekly r4r (Redditor for Redditor) post. Use the comment section beneath this post to try and arrange meetups with fellow Redditors.
DO
- Use this post to ask if anyone wants to meet, e.g. to go to an event together
- Use this post to -politely- ask for hookup requests
- Use caution! People on here are strangers and you do not know their intent. Use common sense safety rules like meeting in public places, letting a friend know where you’re going, sharing your location using your phone and the like!
DON’T
- Violate other standing rules of the sub or otherwise behave in a way as to make fellow redditors uncomfortable.
Pinky Promise or Cuddles? This Saturday - May 23rd
Any thoughts? Which one will you attend, guys?
Wasteland @ KitKat
Anyone been to Wasteland @ KitKat who can share their experience? 55€ seems pretty heavy
Group Jerk off Berlin
Hey, guys! Do you know any app, website, place where I can look for other men wanting to jerk off with each other to porn?
Nachspiel & KdK recommendation
Hi, quick question:
My gf and I randomly had the idea… As far as we know, there’s no event at KitKat on Sunday evening, but we would really want to go.
So now we’re thinking: maybe just start at Nachspiel and then head over to KdK later? Probably something like 9–14 or so. No idea if this is genius or completely random haha.
Has anyone here been to Nachspiel before? What’s the vibe like? Is it comparable to other KitKat Events? And does this sound like a decent idea?
Or are there other Sex Positive events next Sunday?
Insomnia vs Tempeloas vs Avarus
Hi everyone! My husband and I are visiting Berlin soon and are curious about exploring the swinger/hotwife scene for the first time. We’re both 27, open-minded, respectful, and excited to discover new experiences together.
For couples who’ve been to clubs or events in Berlin, which places would you recommend for a fun, welcoming, and sexy atmosphere for beginners? If I state specifically, possible events for us are, Young Love @ Insomnia, Couples & Trios @ Avarus or visit to Tempeloase.
Fetish Guerilla @KitKat
Hi everyone, can someone tell me if this party is also for people who just want to dance and party?
We have been for more then 10 times but friends would like to join for their first time kitkat. Is every floor open today?
Smart Glasses und ähnliche Technologie. Ist das das Anfang vom Ende von sexpositiven Partys?
Is the technological possibility of being filmed anytime and anywhere the end of sex-positive parties and reasonably safe spaces? What experiences have you had with this topic at parties so far? Have you ever had problems with people secretly filming despite it being forbidden? How big of an issue is this really, and how can people generally deal with it? I’d really be interested in hearing your perspectives on this. Am I overreacting, or is this actually becoming a growing problem?
Today I stumbled across a new documentary about this topic, and it really got me thinking, especially when I imagine what might be technologically possible in just a few more years. And not only in everyday life, but also in especially sensitive environments like sex-positive events. Pretty unsettling. https://www.ardmediathek.de/video/Y3JpZDovL3N3ci5kZS9hZXgvbzIzMjA3OTk
Had our first visit last at KitKat last Saturday, and it blew our minds❤️
What an amazing experience, from start to end.
The openness, the vibe, the freedom of expression and all the beautiful souls that crossed our path during the evening.
We spent the first 20 minutes or so, just to find our place, to get used to the vibe, surroundings and to get to know the location. We danced, we connected and we played💫🔥❤️
We already want to go back - so until next time, Thank You Kit Kat & Thank You Berlin❤️